She said she was sorry. Have you? Somehow I missed that in your text.
You both seem immature… If you want to stay together, you need to learn and accept each other's boundaries without any Oppression Olympics.
One of her boundaries – a serious one – is that she will not tolerate disrespect. That one she shares with my own husband, and I can tell you that respecting it is very much possible. You just don't ever allow yourself to swear at her or call her a fool or such. I think you can say “that would be foolish”, but you'll have to ask her. I'm assuming you don't like to be disrespected either…
Make your boundaries known to her as well, whatever they are. And as I said, accept and uplift each other rather than argue how what the other needs is unreasonable.
This is a stereotype and running joke in the military for a reason.
You’re about to find out, if you don’t know already, that your bf is bi and wants to try being with a man.
What he asked you to do is illegal. This isn't sounding like a healthy relationship.
This. Very much this.
Is he going to like it? Probably not.
You've no reason to feel guilt about it though. She's a free agent, you're both adults.
I think what they meant was don’t go to the family dinner, dump her and get tested
child excuse and doormat personality again
You shouldn't be a broken family, anyone can sleep with your wife it's okay,
Will the children who grow up in this situation be happier and healthier?
Seriously? How on earth can she justify that sort of perspective, then?
She said she was sorry. Have you? Somehow I missed that in your text.
You both seem immature… If you want to stay together, you need to learn and accept each other's boundaries without any Oppression Olympics.
One of her boundaries – a serious one – is that she will not tolerate disrespect. That one she shares with my own husband, and I can tell you that respecting it is very much possible. You just don't ever allow yourself to swear at her or call her a fool or such. I think you can say “that would be foolish”, but you'll have to ask her. I'm assuming you don't like to be disrespected either…
Make your boundaries known to her as well, whatever they are. And as I said, accept and uplift each other rather than argue how what the other needs is unreasonable.