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Honestly, there are several things I think you need to do here.
Most important, get yourself into therapy. Threatening harm to yourself, feeling like harming yourself and or harming yourself over relationship issues shows there are much deeper rooted issues that you need to address in your life so that you can be healthier and stronger mentally
Get yourself independent of him. Either move or get him off the lease. Separate yourself from him financially.
Rehome the problematic dogs.
This may be hot to hear, but he already has one foot out of the relationship, and his other one isn’t far behind. You aren’t a failure for struggling to take care of something you planned on having together, and having 4 dogs is a ton of work, let alone having one or two to take care of. That’s a huge amount of responsibility and stress. Rehome the problematic pups for your safety and your other pup’s safety. This will significantly lessen stress surrounding pups.
You need to start looking out in your own best interests because he and his parents won’t be. In fact I wouldn’t be shocked if his parents were pushing him to end things with you. Consider having him removed from the lease if possible or getting yourself removed if he refuses to allow himself to be removed. If he is removed, look into getting a roommate or two to help share bill responsibilities.
I know you are struggling with what they call the sunken fallacy costs. Yes, 15 years is a long time with someone, but he is running around like a single man, giving you conflicting messages (ie doesn’t want to be with you/doesn’t love you, but then tells you that he actually does/wants to come home before reverting back). But this, this is just toxic and a mess and you need to focus on you for your own mental sanity. If he really wants a relationship with you, you guys really really need to go to couples counseling.
If they had something good that’s one thing. Her hubby commented with how his wife packs his lunch better. Saying something like “oh John Doe had the best smelling lunch today. We should find a recipe.” Is one thing.
Right??? OP:“My girlfriend thinks I might be abusive” 🙁
also OP: Demonstrating blatantly abusive behaviors.
I’m thinking you didn’t snoop in the right place.
Respectfully, break it off. She is a grown woman who needs to get therapy for her issues, and quite frankly, its incredibly uncomfortable that she is possibly pursuing someone who could reasonably be the age of her own children. She went through a rough divorce, she clearly isn't handling it well, and while I completely empathize with being concerned for her, she needs to sort her junk out without using you as a backboard for it. You are very young- you are still figuring out life, who you are as a person, what you do and don't want, while she is of the age that she should already know these things about herself, or know how to fully explore these things about herself.
Even the comments on “I know you are the one for me,” are, even if unintentionally, incredibly manipulative. You've known each other for three months? Again respectfully since I can't convey tone- but people train for jobs longer that. You two barely know each other. It's one thing to emotionally connect in a way where you feel comfortable to talk about deeper things, but deeper things aren't the only makes-or-breaks of a relationship- introversion vs extroversion, politics, who's messy or clean, hobbies, level of communication expected, and so forth.
And last but not least- the fact that you do no want to deal with children is a major deal breaker. She has three children that she needs to be focusing on, and you are not at all in that life stage and probably won't be for several years. And that is not something that deep talks can talk away, that's just the reality. For both her mental sake AND yours, the kindest and smartest decision is to break it off. Date people your own age, date around, don't date at all if you aren't feeling ready. Figure out yourself and what you truly want, figure out your mental health, and let yourself just be.