You are not really harming your daughter if you make plans for her mother to see her, but if you just let her mom get deported without being able to see her daughter then yes. But don't take her back, just make plans for her to see her daughter.
No it wont, i love him too much to hurt him, thats my whole pb in why i cant make a decision and im a big fighter vs cheating and always was. I believe in break up and then find someone but I cant find the right way to do so bcs I cant just tell him hey I dont find u attactive lets break up
Yeah exactly, it’s not as if he’s dressed super differently than me… I will definitely say these things to him to try and shut down this behavior. We don’t on-line together so if it does get to that point I’ll be able to go home to be alone thank goodness.
Sounds like he might benefit from therapy. If you think the relationship is worth keeping, then there are a couple of tactics you can use. The two of you could plan sexy time. So every Thursday you know it's going to happen, and that way no one is initiating (still you can say no, obviously, just that is on the calendar. You could try to create opportunities for him to initiate. Basically initiating but in a super subtle way.
Relationships have weird spots. If you both want to work towards a resolution, you can approach it as a team. It's you two against the problem of how to have an intimate life that you both find satisfying.
That's what I was about to say. The only way to deal with this kind of people is by not having them in your life. And don't feel bad for it – even if she or her enablers try to guilt trip you.
If somebodies wife literally looked like a child and they were talking shit that my wife looked old and haggard that would definitely not help the pedophile vibe.
Yes but you're so small you need whomever you date to have blinders on. So scared that if they notice or are noticed by literally anyone, they see a better option. Sad shit like that is guaranteed bad sex.
Take your grandmother for support
You are not really harming your daughter if you make plans for her mother to see her, but if you just let her mom get deported without being able to see her daughter then yes. But don't take her back, just make plans for her to see her daughter.
No it wont, i love him too much to hurt him, thats my whole pb in why i cant make a decision and im a big fighter vs cheating and always was. I believe in break up and then find someone but I cant find the right way to do so bcs I cant just tell him hey I dont find u attactive lets break up
Yeah exactly, it’s not as if he’s dressed super differently than me… I will definitely say these things to him to try and shut down this behavior. We don’t on-line together so if it does get to that point I’ll be able to go home to be alone thank goodness.
Sounds like he might benefit from therapy. If you think the relationship is worth keeping, then there are a couple of tactics you can use. The two of you could plan sexy time. So every Thursday you know it's going to happen, and that way no one is initiating (still you can say no, obviously, just that is on the calendar. You could try to create opportunities for him to initiate. Basically initiating but in a super subtle way.
Relationships have weird spots. If you both want to work towards a resolution, you can approach it as a team. It's you two against the problem of how to have an intimate life that you both find satisfying.
That's what I was about to say. The only way to deal with this kind of people is by not having them in your life. And don't feel bad for it – even if she or her enablers try to guilt trip you.
Tell her before so she’s not shocked at the banquet. This will give her a chance to process it beforehand and hopefully will avoid any outbursts.
If somebodies wife literally looked like a child and they were talking shit that my wife looked old and haggard that would definitely not help the pedophile vibe.
Congratulations on the impending conception of your first child.
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Yes but you're so small you need whomever you date to have blinders on. So scared that if they notice or are noticed by literally anyone, they see a better option. Sad shit like that is guaranteed bad sex.
The intensity of the interrogations have decreased dramatically with time. While she’ll still ask questions it’s far less accusing than it used to be.
Ooof straight out of the abused spouse playbook of justifications.
OP. Her reaction was not okay. The sooner you admit that they quicker all of you can get help.