A normal person knows their partner needs sleep. He knows you are getting up 5 hours before him. Yet he wakes you several times a night, saying you have a problem. You know you don't. That is psychological abuse.
Depriving you of sleep is physical abuse.
Sleep separately from and see his reaction. If it becomes controlling what I am saying is true.
I speak from experience. My ex said he had PTSD and sleep disorders. He deprived me of sleep on and off for 10 years. He had other controlling behaviors. I now need gabapentin to sleep and I now have c-ptsd. I know his night behavior was deliberate not unintentional. Like your partner why is he putting his arm you if it wakes him? Why is he complaining about your problem and not moving to the sofa? My ex did these things too and then it got worse
Your best friend is vile for exposing a poor guy unknowingly to HIV and now is probably going to have a positive HIV baby. That's like my worst nightmare material right there.
For her child's sake she needs to come clean to him, and start taking antivirals to reduce the exposure to her bab, and get her boyfriend started with his now most likely lifelong treatment for HIV. I'm not sure if her relationship will recover but the guy deserves to be told about her status, and should have been so he could have take steps to reduce his exposure.
It's ILLEGAL to knowingly expose someone else to HIV without their consent. She better hope he doesn't decide to press charges and sue her. Personally, if I was in your shoes, I'd send tht boyfriend a text that he needs to get himself checked for HIV urgently and explain he's been exposed. You don't have to disclose it was his girlfriend. That's a conversation they need to have ASAP. The guy should be given the opportunity to start antiviral treatment. It's not fair to him to be kept in the dark, esp since the baby being born HIV positive Will be discovered and disclosed to him in the next nine months. It would be much better for them both for her to tell him before the doctors at the hospital do.
I’d call off the engagement pronto. Where there’s smoke there’s fire
My first instinct when I read posts like this is
RUN!!! Don't walk
A normal person knows their partner needs sleep. He knows you are getting up 5 hours before him. Yet he wakes you several times a night, saying you have a problem. You know you don't. That is psychological abuse.
Depriving you of sleep is physical abuse.
Sleep separately from and see his reaction. If it becomes controlling what I am saying is true.
I speak from experience. My ex said he had PTSD and sleep disorders. He deprived me of sleep on and off for 10 years. He had other controlling behaviors. I now need gabapentin to sleep and I now have c-ptsd. I know his night behavior was deliberate not unintentional. Like your partner why is he putting his arm you if it wakes him? Why is he complaining about your problem and not moving to the sofa? My ex did these things too and then it got worse
It is not a sleep disorder it is abuse.
Your best friend is vile for exposing a poor guy unknowingly to HIV and now is probably going to have a positive HIV baby. That's like my worst nightmare material right there.
For her child's sake she needs to come clean to him, and start taking antivirals to reduce the exposure to her bab, and get her boyfriend started with his now most likely lifelong treatment for HIV. I'm not sure if her relationship will recover but the guy deserves to be told about her status, and should have been so he could have take steps to reduce his exposure.
It's ILLEGAL to knowingly expose someone else to HIV without their consent. She better hope he doesn't decide to press charges and sue her. Personally, if I was in your shoes, I'd send tht boyfriend a text that he needs to get himself checked for HIV urgently and explain he's been exposed. You don't have to disclose it was his girlfriend. That's a conversation they need to have ASAP. The guy should be given the opportunity to start antiviral treatment. It's not fair to him to be kept in the dark, esp since the baby being born HIV positive Will be discovered and disclosed to him in the next nine months. It would be much better for them both for her to tell him before the doctors at the hospital do.
This is why a high body count is gross.
Exactly my take too. They know she is old they think he likes kids and found a loop hole.