Have you been clear with her that you are looking for a long term relationship? Do you know for sure that she wants the same thing? Are you comfortable with the possibility of not having a relationship with her after you’ve had sex?
I realize I’m going in a slightly different direction than your question but I don’t want a sad update post two weeks from now.
Maybe you’re not caught up on cultural constructs around virginity and will be cool whatever happens, but make sure you’re not equating sex with a promise of commitment if that hasn’t already been mutually agreed upon.
Just don’t put her in a situation where she feels guilt-tripped into being in a relationship with you just because she was your first sexual partner or you feel hurt bc you thought it meant more than it did. Either way communication is always the best answer. I hope you are on the same page and have a wonderful time together.
Umm break up with her. You aren’t married and she already feels entitled to using your money for her selfish reasons and getting mad at you for saying no. She’s not going to change you need to get out before she tries getting knocked up or something to get that money out of you
If I knew the why's, I'd be writing books and rich.
Lots and lots of people, myself included, had that ex that kept wanting to walk in and out of your life until you flat said enough and kicked them to the curb forever. Come to think of it… that was two ex's for me… I'm such an overachiever.
His angers issues are reasons to leave not to stay.
You have Stockholm syndrome
Granted it depends on who he hooked up with but I doubt it was her best friend.
I see no problem with this. He is basically a classmate/colleague. Not your supervisor or anything. I say go for it!
Have you been clear with her that you are looking for a long term relationship? Do you know for sure that she wants the same thing? Are you comfortable with the possibility of not having a relationship with her after you’ve had sex?
I realize I’m going in a slightly different direction than your question but I don’t want a sad update post two weeks from now.
Maybe you’re not caught up on cultural constructs around virginity and will be cool whatever happens, but make sure you’re not equating sex with a promise of commitment if that hasn’t already been mutually agreed upon.
Just don’t put her in a situation where she feels guilt-tripped into being in a relationship with you just because she was your first sexual partner or you feel hurt bc you thought it meant more than it did. Either way communication is always the best answer. I hope you are on the same page and have a wonderful time together.
Umm break up with her. You aren’t married and she already feels entitled to using your money for her selfish reasons and getting mad at you for saying no. She’s not going to change you need to get out before she tries getting knocked up or something to get that money out of you
If I knew the why's, I'd be writing books and rich.
Lots and lots of people, myself included, had that ex that kept wanting to walk in and out of your life until you flat said enough and kicked them to the curb forever. Come to think of it… that was two ex's for me… I'm such an overachiever.
Op you were raped.