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I am sorry you are going through this. I was once with somebody who was not 100% in it, it ended with me feeling lonely and resentful because I felt like I was giving it my all to make up for the fact that he was not all in. It is very lonely and heart breaking. Like being in a relationship by yourself. You do not want to end up with somebody who is not as invested as you are.
I think he is being kind and respectful by openly communicating and being direct with you. He is not stringing you along, he is saying he is not 100% into it. Ask yourself, do you want to be with somebody who isn’t 100% in it with you?
The best thing you can do is give him the space and time he is asking for. Let him figure it out for himself. You should also do the same. Do not let it linger though. I think the worst part of a break is not knowing what is going on which might feel like you are in limbo. I think it’s reasonable to set a time for both of you. It could be 2 weeks, 3 weeks and by then I think the answer should be pretty clear for the both of you.
It is better to find this out now at the 1 year mark rather than getting blind sided at 8 years. Good luck!
I would ? focus less on the age gap and more on what you have with this guy. 10 years is not huge and more people are crossing the generational divide for luurvve. Do you make each other laugh? Do you have things you align on you can explore? If he’s kind and fun, go with it for a bit! We just get so judgmental in these situations but just check it out, you never know who a perfect person might be and it might be different to the person you expected. You’re both adults with complementary experiences to share. You’ll each have stories the other doesn’t. Will it work long term? Who knows? Beautiful experiences don’t need to. Or they might! Good luck and don’t get up in your head. Chill, see what happens ?
Why would you even stay with someone who would be so cruel as to fake a proposal? That's really shitty, immature behaviour, and from what you're saying he was just as bad at the party.
Hi Reddit! Using a throwaway because my fiance uses Reddit for date ideas and whatnot.
I mean he's going to know you made this post, you know that right
Throw the damn relationship away!!!! Immediately. I hope by the time you've read this you are some where safe. Please do not stay. He is not a safe person for you in this state. Prioritize yourself right now and hopefully he gets some help so you can be with him in the future when he is healthy if that's what you choose.
I've had a partner sit on my chest and hold a knife to my throat and I knew I was going to die at the hands of that man. That was the day I knew if I didn't get out, I was going to die the next time he was mad.
Please get out.
thank you for commenting, I won’t lie this has been the hardest thing I’ve gone through. Idk how to move on. Every single minute I keep beating myself up over all the things that was said to me and it’s making me so anxious
Last year November was our 3rd year. If I have to be honest, I am really scared to lose him, but I don't really want to just settle because I don't want to end up being alone.
We don't agree on politics and he has this bad habit of gambling (thru easy cash schemes like axie and this new game called Lele Gold). I don't know if I want to deal with that.
We’re not super close, not close enough that I’d set him up with one of my friends, I don’t even think he’d want to. I feel weird talking to him about heartbreak??? It seems like I’m assuming a lot
Yes. I'm sorry if this sounded harsh.
Technically he doesn't need to go into details about his financials, but you do have a right to be upset that he isn't keeping up his end of the bills.
I think engagement is when financials should be laid out on the table… You definitely don't want that to be after marriage. Prenups are also a wonderful tool if you have assets & money.
This should be sending up a flag, saying this dude isn't ready for marriage, kids …. Cuz he isn't even ready to be living with his significant other financially.
If you ask my mom my husband jumped my bones and baby trapped me; Derailed my life plan.
If you ask me,I had sex and I got pregnant right before I graduated uni. I knew the risks and possible outcomes of having sex. I had free and accesible termination services as well as pregnancy support programs.
I used my agency and made the right choice for me. Your mom used her own agency and made her choices. Housewife only worked for me for a year, then I went back bc to work and eventually grad school(in a subject that was not my original plan). I had 2 more kids while in grad school. I chose grad school and if I had my reasons I could have chosen being a SAHM(I did at certain points in career). Please don’t forget your mothers own agency in her life. She changed her plans and went against her mother, all her choices.
So your bestman planned an after party to your pre-wedding party and didn't invite your fiance….and you still want to be friends with him???