That's the thing. Inheritance laws don't care about anyone's feelings. Without a will it depends on the laws which may entitle the brother to half anyway. Most places having your name on an account just makes it easier to access.
I've dealt with your situation. I will not mistreat my children's mother to make someone else more comfortable. That said, that relationship needs more and stricter boundaries when you have a partner. Open phone policy and you have to let your ex know that if it's not about parenting, she should not do it. Ignoring it works sometimes but she should not be sending it.
GF needs to chill and accept that you have to coparent. It's not always going to be perfect where she can police your thoughts and speech, but she should have input on boundaries. That you initiated the divorce is an Ace for sure.
Finally, you need to come to peace with the idea that you may not be successful dating until your boy leaves home, but even then this kinda stuff is still going to come up.
the point is, shes doing a job. shes doing a job for you. you havent been completing your end of the deal by telling her about your interviews. you're probably making her job harder. shes probably frustrated with you. also it seems like well done is a phrase she uses a lot.
Given how frequently he changes jobs, I'd suggest that you both go for it, agree to a year pursuing your own career with a distance relationship. If it works out, reevaluate as a year isn't a long time and you can move on to a different job easily with a years experience.
It also protects you from him wiping out your opportunity and then not succeeding in his (given his work history).
If your relationship is strong enough, it will survive a year. If his / your job doesn't work out, you have a stable base one can move to. It's bad timing for both opportunities sure, but that doesn't mean one has to give it up or you will split.
That’s sad.
That's the thing. Inheritance laws don't care about anyone's feelings. Without a will it depends on the laws which may entitle the brother to half anyway. Most places having your name on an account just makes it easier to access.
I've dealt with your situation. I will not mistreat my children's mother to make someone else more comfortable. That said, that relationship needs more and stricter boundaries when you have a partner. Open phone policy and you have to let your ex know that if it's not about parenting, she should not do it. Ignoring it works sometimes but she should not be sending it.
GF needs to chill and accept that you have to coparent. It's not always going to be perfect where she can police your thoughts and speech, but she should have input on boundaries. That you initiated the divorce is an Ace for sure.
Finally, you need to come to peace with the idea that you may not be successful dating until your boy leaves home, but even then this kinda stuff is still going to come up.
the point is, shes doing a job. shes doing a job for you. you havent been completing your end of the deal by telling her about your interviews. you're probably making her job harder. shes probably frustrated with you. also it seems like well done is a phrase she uses a lot.
Yeah i teksted him but he is at work. How should i tell him ? Im freaking out.
Given how frequently he changes jobs, I'd suggest that you both go for it, agree to a year pursuing your own career with a distance relationship. If it works out, reevaluate as a year isn't a long time and you can move on to a different job easily with a years experience.
It also protects you from him wiping out your opportunity and then not succeeding in his (given his work history).
If your relationship is strong enough, it will survive a year. If his / your job doesn't work out, you have a stable base one can move to. It's bad timing for both opportunities sure, but that doesn't mean one has to give it up or you will split.