I know it’s really saddening to think about. Some friends are over right now, do you think I should wait until it calms down and they leave or cut everything short now?
It's actually kind of funny. I had one hoodie in my closet that a kind dude gave to me at a festival when I was really cold. My bf found it and asked about it. I told him the truth. His reaction was to basically 'permanently borrow' it from me.
Don't marry him. Don't marry anyone for a long time. You're only 21 and you've already been divorced, and now you're engaged again? I think you need to do some work on yourself and be single for a few years, because I'm getting the feeling that you're scared to be alone, and that will lead you to bad places and bad people.
There’s no excuse for breaking things during a fight, it’s just not normal. But, if, and big if, let’s say some lost their cool and actually punched your tv. The normal response would be to offer to buy a new one and apologize for going too far.
Your boyfriend is basically telling you he did this on purpose to “teach you a lesson”, which sounds psychotic.
Not mean, just honest. I don’t mean anything bad by calling bullshit bullshit. Educate yourself on sexism, it’s not something you cry when men harass women.
Who cares why, do better for yourself, your peace of mind and ditch him. Stuff been told he can do better than you. There's the door, go for gold mate. You will ruin your own self esteem if you put up with this shenanigans.
You are reading too much into it. I am thinking he meant that you instead of him should have taken off the tux. That was a way of saying he wanted to be with you.
I know it’s really saddening to think about. Some friends are over right now, do you think I should wait until it calms down and they leave or cut everything short now?
It's actually kind of funny. I had one hoodie in my closet that a kind dude gave to me at a festival when I was really cold. My bf found it and asked about it. I told him the truth. His reaction was to basically 'permanently borrow' it from me.
I'm serious, he wears it all the time now XD.
Don't marry him. Don't marry anyone for a long time. You're only 21 and you've already been divorced, and now you're engaged again? I think you need to do some work on yourself and be single for a few years, because I'm getting the feeling that you're scared to be alone, and that will lead you to bad places and bad people.
Could you have a little ocd? Like your not sure stuff is done right unless you do it?
There’s no excuse for breaking things during a fight, it’s just not normal. But, if, and big if, let’s say some lost their cool and actually punched your tv. The normal response would be to offer to buy a new one and apologize for going too far.
Your boyfriend is basically telling you he did this on purpose to “teach you a lesson”, which sounds psychotic.
Not mean, just honest. I don’t mean anything bad by calling bullshit bullshit. Educate yourself on sexism, it’s not something you cry when men harass women.
Who cares why, do better for yourself, your peace of mind and ditch him. Stuff been told he can do better than you. There's the door, go for gold mate. You will ruin your own self esteem if you put up with this shenanigans.
Proud of you OP!
You are reading too much into it. I am thinking he meant that you instead of him should have taken off the tux. That was a way of saying he wanted to be with you.