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You won't get more praise by forcing him to do it. Sobbing and creating a huge drama is a repellant and the only thing that will get you is singledom.
Work on your insecurity by yourself, don't rely on compliments from others to stave it off. Build up your confidence by doing things that make you proud of yourself. Then, as time goes by, you will receive compliments without even asking for them. Be your own source of validation.
You and only you is responsible for your own happiness, placing that burden on another person will always prove too much and will break them eventually.
Your husband facilitated your rape. Multiple times. There’s no coming back from this. Be thankful you didn’t have children with either of these monsters.
You need to kick him out, get a lawyer and take him for every penny he has in the divorce so you can start again. The threat of rape charges will probably make him more compliant to a settlement.
It doesn’t matter whether you ever fall in love again, but develop some self-respect and don’t let anyone treat you like this!!! You deserve so much better.
And I assure you, it will be difficult to fall in love again for a while, because you‘ll be guarded after the abuse. But if you work on your self-esteem and your emotional healing, there is no reason why you shouldn’t feel deeply again, but for a much better partner.
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It's over. Don't take him back this time. You deserve better.
You won't get more praise by forcing him to do it. Sobbing and creating a huge drama is a repellant and the only thing that will get you is singledom.
Work on your insecurity by yourself, don't rely on compliments from others to stave it off. Build up your confidence by doing things that make you proud of yourself. Then, as time goes by, you will receive compliments without even asking for them. Be your own source of validation.
You and only you is responsible for your own happiness, placing that burden on another person will always prove too much and will break them eventually.
I will try this tonight thanks
If he is threatening to cheat – he is cheating.
Your husband facilitated your rape. Multiple times. There’s no coming back from this. Be thankful you didn’t have children with either of these monsters.
You need to kick him out, get a lawyer and take him for every penny he has in the divorce so you can start again. The threat of rape charges will probably make him more compliant to a settlement.
That okay again but the other is like the screeching of chalk on a board unnerving to just read ?
It doesn’t matter whether you ever fall in love again, but develop some self-respect and don’t let anyone treat you like this!!! You deserve so much better.
And I assure you, it will be difficult to fall in love again for a while, because you‘ll be guarded after the abuse. But if you work on your self-esteem and your emotional healing, there is no reason why you shouldn’t feel deeply again, but for a much better partner.