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Leiya, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
Leiya, 21 y.o.
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Why did you do that?
Clearly. Stay single, keep your “values” to yourself, and leave your friend alone.
Why are you so against therapy? Does she not want to go? You don’t have to do couples counseling. You can do individual therapy to help you understand why you did what you did and why you really don’t seem remorseful.
Based on your constant comment of, “but I got caught and now she just needs to get over it and trust me,” you don’t seem to understand that you have to actually do the work. You don’t seem to understand how deeply you hurt her and how lucky you are that she’s still with you.
Most people wouldn’t take you back. This isn’t something she’s just going to get over. Your relationship may never go back to what it was. What you need to do is stop trying to force it and give her the time she needs to heal. Show her,through your actions, that you recognize that you destroyed your relationship. Starting therapy for yourself may take time, but it’s a step in the right direction because it shows that you acknowledge you have things to work on. You can make sure that you’re doing your share both financially and with household chores. Pay attention to her feelings and behaviors. Listen when she talks. If you know she’s had a very hot day, do something nice like have dinner ready when she gets home. Spend every single day showing her how much she means to you. Nothing that’s worth it comes without effort. Show her love, appreciation and respect every single day.
I agree with your wife. It’s hurtful to marriages and promotes the business of human trafficking. Porn addiction is harmful to your brain and intimacy. An average of 3x per week is a reasonable number for a woman her age and in her position (under high stress/fixed income). I really feel like you need to compromise here.
Your wife needs to talk to her mental health provider. Her PPD is not getting better, she's still very depressed (not taking care of herself). Something needs to be adjusted, she needs to have therapy – talking to someone.
She does need your help with parenting – you're the dad to those twins.
I would tell and I would absolutely be thankful if someone told me.
You shouldn't do this to yourself or to her. She needs to figure out how to become financially independent.
He has no defense. He could have not done it especially when he saw how distraught you were. Honestly, get a lawyer
oh.. your bf is a predat0r.. why is a grown ass 30 year old man and not able to date people his own age? why is he going after someone who has barely been legal for 2 years and doesn't even have a fully developed brain yet?
but good luck to you with your future, hopefully things will somehow work out for you (you'd definitely be in the minority)
That's some right head fuck to lay on your SO.
“Oh I just went to drop off her stuff and stayed the night. Could have done an all nighter, gone to a bar, had a coffee drove home, got a cheap BandB just for the sleep, slept in my car, you know to save you the mental stress and torment and also you know cos I didn't want to risk giving my ex the wrong idea or even risk having an argument during my stay… ”
I love how people are happy to book a hotel and stay out all night when they meet someone and are keen but that in this scenario this guy couldn't come up with any other solutions other than to sTay aT HiS eXEs hoUse ???
Dude why would you create so much emotional paper work for your partner and in turn for yourself? Did she guilt trip him? Is she pregnant? Is she self harming? Does she own him money? What gives?
There needs to be a reason why he would do this… And not hide it too? Is there any reason he would've gotten away with lying about staying if he tried?
Sorry this is so long. You're relationship is between you and him. Not us and you and him, also not HER and you and him. He has no reason to stay in touch with her now.
You have EVERY right to be upset but don't let a bunch of strangers tell you what to do.