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Lenna_Goddess, 26 y.o.
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Date: October 5, 2022
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You’re making assumptions about me. Not one person I’ve ever met would describe as someone with an ego. How can this be an issue with my mentality and not hers??? I give her everything I have and she gives me the cold shoulder. I open dialogue and she Dosent express her feelings like I said in the previous comment and post. You just want me to be the wrong one in this scenario when I’m not, as she knows I’m not too. I’m looking for advice not a critique on who I am as a person from people that do not know me as a person.
Sounds like you were the psychopath. But now that he dumped you, I think he’s going to be ok. But you need therapy, ASAP
This is a huge red flag either way, but I think sometimes (rarely) it really is just a joke – some people have been conditioned to dig at their loved ones as a show of familiarity with them, because God forbid they be vulnerable and say what they mean. That, at least, can be a sign that they're immature or emotionally stunted, but not necessarily abusive.
More often and more likely, they're negging. They wear you down over time and make you feel bad about yourself, to make you dependent on their affection for your self-esteem. They do it in a light-hearted or flirty way so they can deny it or minimize it when you bring it up. It's a tactic suggested by misogynistic creeps, and it's abusive.
You know him, so you probably know which is more likely. Depending on what you think and how exactly you've brought it up in the past, it might be worth having one last conversation about it. Where you say you know it's a joke, but it's not funny and it hurts, and you no longer need him to explain why he does it – you need him to just stop doing it.
If his response is ANYTHING other than “I'm sorry I didn't take you seriously before. I didn't realize this was so hurtful to you. I'm going to adjust my behavior”, then there's your answer: you're a punching bag.
okay 🙁