Remember how you feel right now, because, like the other poster said, he is going to lovebomb you. He'll promise you anything you want and say anything he thinks you want to hear. He'll probably be super affectionate and may even try to “buy” you back with gifts . It will be very hot not to fall for it. You're going to have to stick to your guns. Remember everything you have said on this post, and remember that you don't want to be tied down with a baby at 20. You want to live! your life, and you can't do that with him around.
Oh my GOD. He travels for work, you've been with him two months and you're being difficult about it?
I travel for work. I hate it. At one point earlier this year, I spent 6 weeks out of 8 abroad; it was awful and my boyfriend and I both hated it. (thankfully we're less short staffed now and it's only once a month)
However, I also have bills and a mortgage to pay. And you'd better believe that if someone I'd been with for 2 months was difficult about my work schedule, they would be gone as fast as this guy got rid of you.
It's work. It's not a holiday. It's not a fun trip. It's work.
sometimes i wonder what self control i have. people have confided in me about things and i know that they confided in ME, so its not MY problem to share. unless its a funny story.
even tho your husband didnt explicitly say not to say anything, he confided in you and expected a certain level of privacy. imagine him airing your dirty laundry with your father. just dont gossip next time, and apologize.
She was never perfect, and always needed a constant influx of your attention and affection, and as soon as you removed yourself from the equation, she kissed the first bloke who came along and shot his shot.
This woman was never for you, you are merely grieving the lie she sold you, King.
I don't know about Montana laws, but in Texas, keeping a dog on a lead or chain outside is a Class C misdemeanor with a $500 fine on the first offense. If you do it again, it's a Class B misdemeanor with a $2000 fine and up to 180 days in jail. I personally would tell a SO in this situation to start packing their shit, because my dog isn't going anywhere.
She’s insecure about something……this is about her… unless you are giving her reasons to be insecure I don’t feel that it’s reasonable to ask for this. It sounds very controlling…..is she a controlling or insecure person generally..? I’m in the same situation and I totally encourage my partner to have good communication with the mom of his kids. I think it’s beneficial to everyone ….
Well I can understand if it's heterochromia, but there are other things that can affect the physical appearance of someone's eyes that are rarer. I figured it must be a rarer thing if OP is focusing on it so much.
I’ve been looking into therapy for myself It just nude because I don’t open up unless like on here where people can’t see and don’t know who I am. Him and I do go to therapy together but it’s had
He might just be very introverted and doesn't have a lot of “social battery”. Still, that doesn't mean you should have to leave early. I'd invite him when you want to and tell him that you'll be staying out late so if he wants to go, he should either be prepared to stay until you're ready or arrange his own way home. Maybe just go separately.
I think there are a couple places where I balk (young kids, not having a career, loving in a SHCOL place, and generally not having my ducks in a row), but in the end, the delaying and standing in my own way only prevents me from being happy.
My choices have repercussions, and I recognize that.
I am working on it, so thanks for the encouragement.
I did not even read your whole post. Absolutely yes! Why not? Do you want to listen to that for the rest of your life? Next thing you know she'll be calling your pets her fur babies. And that would make ME absolutely insane. Your mileage may vary. why bother to marry someone if you can't tell them to quit calling you a creepy nickname. Settle in. You'll have more controversial shit than that to talk about soon.
Remember how you feel right now, because, like the other poster said, he is going to lovebomb you. He'll promise you anything you want and say anything he thinks you want to hear. He'll probably be super affectionate and may even try to “buy” you back with gifts . It will be very hot not to fall for it. You're going to have to stick to your guns. Remember everything you have said on this post, and remember that you don't want to be tied down with a baby at 20. You want to live! your life, and you can't do that with him around.
Oh my GOD. He travels for work, you've been with him two months and you're being difficult about it?
I travel for work. I hate it. At one point earlier this year, I spent 6 weeks out of 8 abroad; it was awful and my boyfriend and I both hated it. (thankfully we're less short staffed now and it's only once a month)
However, I also have bills and a mortgage to pay. And you'd better believe that if someone I'd been with for 2 months was difficult about my work schedule, they would be gone as fast as this guy got rid of you.
It's work. It's not a holiday. It's not a fun trip. It's work.
What sibling said. You should probably go to therapy first (not counseling) to build up yourself
sometimes i wonder what self control i have. people have confided in me about things and i know that they confided in ME, so its not MY problem to share. unless its a funny story.
even tho your husband didnt explicitly say not to say anything, he confided in you and expected a certain level of privacy. imagine him airing your dirty laundry with your father. just dont gossip next time, and apologize.
She was never perfect, and always needed a constant influx of your attention and affection, and as soon as you removed yourself from the equation, she kissed the first bloke who came along and shot his shot.
This woman was never for you, you are merely grieving the lie she sold you, King.
Stay strong and know this one isn't on you.
I don't know about Montana laws, but in Texas, keeping a dog on a lead or chain outside is a Class C misdemeanor with a $500 fine on the first offense. If you do it again, it's a Class B misdemeanor with a $2000 fine and up to 180 days in jail. I personally would tell a SO in this situation to start packing their shit, because my dog isn't going anywhere.
She’s insecure about something……this is about her… unless you are giving her reasons to be insecure I don’t feel that it’s reasonable to ask for this. It sounds very controlling…..is she a controlling or insecure person generally..? I’m in the same situation and I totally encourage my partner to have good communication with the mom of his kids. I think it’s beneficial to everyone ….
This is awesome & I feel like if the baby is yours you'll do a decent job at parenting man! Good luck with everything regardless but move out.
Well I can understand if it's heterochromia, but there are other things that can affect the physical appearance of someone's eyes that are rarer. I figured it must be a rarer thing if OP is focusing on it so much.
Let me just figure out and read someone as a person just because I've dated them for a few months.
Let me figure out and read someone as a person just because I've dated them for a few months.s gonna abuse you the moment you met him?”
So asking a question is gaslighting? Do you even know what the term gaslighting means?
What does he do specifically? And why does your husband see nothing wrong with it?
I’ve been looking into therapy for myself It just nude because I don’t open up unless like on here where people can’t see and don’t know who I am. Him and I do go to therapy together but it’s had
He might just be very introverted and doesn't have a lot of “social battery”. Still, that doesn't mean you should have to leave early. I'd invite him when you want to and tell him that you'll be staying out late so if he wants to go, he should either be prepared to stay until you're ready or arrange his own way home. Maybe just go separately.
Thank you for saying that.
I think there are a couple places where I balk (young kids, not having a career, loving in a SHCOL place, and generally not having my ducks in a row), but in the end, the delaying and standing in my own way only prevents me from being happy.
My choices have repercussions, and I recognize that.
I am working on it, so thanks for the encouragement.
It means a lot.
Sounds like she's recruiting for a Jesus cult.
I did not even read your whole post. Absolutely yes! Why not? Do you want to listen to that for the rest of your life? Next thing you know she'll be calling your pets her fur babies. And that would make ME absolutely insane. Your mileage may vary. why bother to marry someone if you can't tell them to quit calling you a creepy nickname. Settle in. You'll have more controversial shit than that to talk about soon.
You def picked the wrong brother
We have previously but nothing changes.