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Date: October 18, 2022
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I think you need to start going on your own trips and doing things you love. Are yall living together? Because if not, you can't really expect her to put her life on hold for you until you're actually serious together.
When you're living together and talking about marriage (both parts), then you can compromise. But that compromise topic needs to be spoken of before moving in together.
What she has done, I don't necessarily see as a red flag. From a woman's mindset, I see it as, “well, he has proposed to me yet (and/or living together), so I'm not going to compromise with someone who's giving me uncertainty at the moment.” And this is regardless of your conversations. Women need to see action, not talk. If she's a genuine, loving woman of her word, she will definitely settle down when she sees you stepping up in the relationship. By that, I mean making her feel emotionally secure.
If yall are living together, disregard the above and move on.
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This is the part that got me. She turned and saw him THEN hit him and yelled at him, then let him leave.
I have stupid anxiety and am ridiculously jumpy. If my partner surprises me I will inadvertently jump, or scream, or be obviously anxious. The second I realise it's him, we both laugh, he rolls his eyes at me and (depending on the situation) I'll frequently apologise – because I totally get that while I can't help it, it can be annoying sometimes that I have such an over-reaction.
Surely in any normal situation the girl would jump, or I could even allow (while not condoning) a reflex hit before she realised (IE if she genuinely thought that a stranger had grabbed her)… But the SECOND she realised, why was there not an immediate apology and checking that he was okay?
so how was this not properly planned out and THEN executed
I'm guessing that he thought it was an unrealistic pipedream, and never considered it as a serious option.
Nice try saying “age gap aside.” 🙂
Especially when half the issues you brought up are directly related to the age gap! Him having his 20's single and free, and you not having that, etc. He was 30 and you were 20, that's a HUGE age gap in my opinion. I don't think it's a good age to “settle down” but it can work when both people agree to do it at a similar time. But he essentially is asking you to sacrifice something that he didn't sacrifice himself. And he's upset that you might want to explore that a bit, even in a way that is still respectful of your relationship.
If he's jealous and insecure of you spending time with friends, that's a huge red flag. Marriage is important, your partner is important, but they should never be your EVERYTHING. That's too much to put on one person, one relationship.
Go live! life a little, stay together during this time, see how he reacts, and then see if the relationship is worth doubling down on, or moving on from in a little while. You're 25, you don't have to commit to the life you have today right now for the rest of your life. Especially important to figure this out if kids are ever a possibility!