I hate to tell you but if you’re not talking then you’re not really in a relationship… you’re basically friends with benefits. You need to speak to him. Make sure you have his undivided attention. If he doesn’t give it to you or ignores you then you’ve got your answer.
Stop fucking
And clearly she hasn't done that so now you have to decide how big a deal this is to you
Yeah for now I am. And it makes sense. Not suddenly it was the first things I asked when I talked to him again
That is no longer accurate and if the timeline you’ve given here is accurate, you aren’t the dad, which explains her hesitation
I don't think piss play falls into that cultures sexual compatibility development scale.
Leave.
Notice how he doesn't reply to people making this exact same point in other comments.
I hate to tell you but if you’re not talking then you’re not really in a relationship… you’re basically friends with benefits. You need to speak to him. Make sure you have his undivided attention. If he doesn’t give it to you or ignores you then you’ve got your answer.
'Yes' means nothing if 'no' is not an option. It will destroy your relationship, if it hadn't already.