The stat isn’t made up, but like all stats we assign social meaning to a number, the numbers can be interpreted many ways when it comes to how they reflect reality.
The metric is based off a study of paternity tests that come back “not the father”. To take this and assume that’s representative of all paternity across the board, most feel isn’t an accurate representation, the idea being you are only sampling those that had a reason to question paternity, so it makes sense there’s a higher proportion that come back negative. Many of the test may even be expected to come back negative, it very well may be people trying to prove they aren’t the father.
Other metrics show about 4%, but I think that’s based off some self reporting data, so who knows how accurate that is.
I don’t have and never will have kids, but if I did I would also get a test, no matter how low the chance is, I’ve seen when divorce comes or (more frequently) mom loses custody, all of a sudden the “dad” is fucked and they have no claim to the kid.
You also don’t have to be a Dick about it. Swab the kids cheek sent it in and be done with it. No need to berate anyone, if he told her years ago that’s what he would do, there’s no need to bring it up again, do it in private and celebrate your kid with you loved ones.
Omg so true! After that incident, he became a little obsessed with me. I forgot to mention we’re colleagues in a way. He would text me just to be “friends” and wanted to follow all my social media and chit chat with me. Got jealous and mad whenever i respond his text late. Then always the one who apologizes to me first after certain arguments.
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Interesting point, however, we agreed to co-parent if something happened to our relationship when we decided to start a family and we both very much want to have this baby, her especially. I suppose it's mute, however, because we are past the cut off point in terms of ending the pregnancy, which I believe is what you are alluding to.
OP, you are a bigger person than I would be, but I would probably be the same way as you. For a bit.
Then I'd give it over to whoever runs the Universe and his new paramour, and walk away. Ask yourself this: He proposed to me, but has been having an affair with someone else on the side. WHY?
And if you proceed with the marriage, you'll likely regret it. I know you're young, and you likely feel gutted right now. Life can be harsh, and people can be….duplicitous. I'm sorry you had to learn this the hot way, but those of us who already know it were once where you are now.
Someone you trusted made decisions without considering your feelings. Make decisions now that exclude that person, even if it's your fiance. He's already sidelined you, and that really sucks because SHE's not there, but YOU are.
Don't feel guilty if you decide to walk, because I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel guilt over what he's been doing with this other gal.
If you choose to leave him over this, set it straight – you're not leaving him over a dog, you're leaving him because he's a manipulative liar, who dragged you along for 3 years.
Like I said I realize this is either a troll post or you just a completely shitty person. Because if you have to train yourself not to cheat best bet to not take any of this post seriously
Because you're jealous and reading way too much into these situations. Like what does their matching white sweaters have to do with anything?? It doesn't sound like he's in love with her. I think you're jealous.
Because you're jealous and reading way too much into these situations. Like what does their matching white sweaters have to do with anything?? It doesn't sound like he's in love with her. I think you're jealous.
That is true, things like needing extreme amounts of patience, and having thick skin is something you'd need. Correct me if I'm wrong but what I'm discovering here is that another part of this would be when she makes a crude or in some words toxic joke she does it to make you laugh and wants you to keep going with the joke?
You’re delusional. I don’t expect my husband to review every meeting he has with me. I’m not his coworker and I honestly don’t give a damn. Have you ever had a job?
How long ago was this? This year?
Unless you were already together when this happened, she has no reason to have this reaction to something you yourself just found out.
The stat isn’t made up, but like all stats we assign social meaning to a number, the numbers can be interpreted many ways when it comes to how they reflect reality.
The metric is based off a study of paternity tests that come back “not the father”. To take this and assume that’s representative of all paternity across the board, most feel isn’t an accurate representation, the idea being you are only sampling those that had a reason to question paternity, so it makes sense there’s a higher proportion that come back negative. Many of the test may even be expected to come back negative, it very well may be people trying to prove they aren’t the father.
Other metrics show about 4%, but I think that’s based off some self reporting data, so who knows how accurate that is.
I don’t have and never will have kids, but if I did I would also get a test, no matter how low the chance is, I’ve seen when divorce comes or (more frequently) mom loses custody, all of a sudden the “dad” is fucked and they have no claim to the kid.
You also don’t have to be a Dick about it. Swab the kids cheek sent it in and be done with it. No need to berate anyone, if he told her years ago that’s what he would do, there’s no need to bring it up again, do it in private and celebrate your kid with you loved ones.
Omg so true! After that incident, he became a little obsessed with me. I forgot to mention we’re colleagues in a way. He would text me just to be “friends” and wanted to follow all my social media and chit chat with me. Got jealous and mad whenever i respond his text late. Then always the one who apologizes to me first after certain arguments.
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He doesn’t shower for a few days
Interesting point, however, we agreed to co-parent if something happened to our relationship when we decided to start a family and we both very much want to have this baby, her especially. I suppose it's mute, however, because we are past the cut off point in terms of ending the pregnancy, which I believe is what you are alluding to.
OP, you are a bigger person than I would be, but I would probably be the same way as you. For a bit.
Then I'd give it over to whoever runs the Universe and his new paramour, and walk away. Ask yourself this: He proposed to me, but has been having an affair with someone else on the side. WHY?
And if you proceed with the marriage, you'll likely regret it. I know you're young, and you likely feel gutted right now. Life can be harsh, and people can be….duplicitous. I'm sorry you had to learn this the hot way, but those of us who already know it were once where you are now.
Someone you trusted made decisions without considering your feelings. Make decisions now that exclude that person, even if it's your fiance. He's already sidelined you, and that really sucks because SHE's not there, but YOU are.
Don't feel guilty if you decide to walk, because I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel guilt over what he's been doing with this other gal.
Is she still dating your ex or are they now broken up?
If you choose to leave him over this, set it straight – you're not leaving him over a dog, you're leaving him because he's a manipulative liar, who dragged you along for 3 years.
Like I said I realize this is either a troll post or you just a completely shitty person. Because if you have to train yourself not to cheat best bet to not take any of this post seriously
You need to grow up, for real. She did nothing wrong, nor did the man.
Because you're jealous and reading way too much into these situations. Like what does their matching white sweaters have to do with anything?? It doesn't sound like he's in love with her. I think you're jealous.
Because you're jealous and reading way too much into these situations. Like what does their matching white sweaters have to do with anything?? It doesn't sound like he's in love with her. I think you're jealous.
That is true, things like needing extreme amounts of patience, and having thick skin is something you'd need. Correct me if I'm wrong but what I'm discovering here is that another part of this would be when she makes a crude or in some words toxic joke she does it to make you laugh and wants you to keep going with the joke?
Rehome the bf…this one is easy. Good luck!
You’re delusional. I don’t expect my husband to review every meeting he has with me. I’m not his coworker and I honestly don’t give a damn. Have you ever had a job?
Yep. Red flag!
He cums everytime, she says.
So feel her he well does.
Wonder what kind of bs is going on here?!