Notice OP didn’t express sadness that the wife might have developed a crush on someone else. He was ANGRY because he works with all these females and did not get close to someone and develop a work crush. As if he missed out on something for HER and she did not do the same.
Wife did not want the separation. She made career altering decisions to put distance between herself and the coworker. Even though OP said THEY need the separation so wife can see if she and crush can work out, I think he is the one who needs the separation so he can be free to test out the waters with the other female auditors during busy season.
This is way beyond things not being at their best in your relationship.
This is mutual physical assault.
I know too many women in abusive relationships with other women who just refuse to do the right thing and end it (I am a woman married to another woman, fwiw). Instead, they both act stubborn and continue to be martyrs because they're too afraid to be alone. They don't realize that being alone is so much better than living this way.
That's gonna be tough for strangers to help you with as we don't know you or your gf. Me, when I was younger, I did use the “break” at least once to end a relationship… but thats me, not her. On the other hand, we don't know her, so we can't say she is just taking a temp break. Not sure you'll be able to get a good answer to this, based on the info we have.
Exactly his bullshit of wanting to do the right thing is straight up pathetic lol
Take what you put in!!
After 6 years, this is how he chose to end the relationship? Ok.
At least that how it appears to me. He's not trust worthy and that's nasty. Get checked OP.
I'm so sorry.
Notice OP didn’t express sadness that the wife might have developed a crush on someone else. He was ANGRY because he works with all these females and did not get close to someone and develop a work crush. As if he missed out on something for HER and she did not do the same.
Wife did not want the separation. She made career altering decisions to put distance between herself and the coworker. Even though OP said THEY need the separation so wife can see if she and crush can work out, I think he is the one who needs the separation so he can be free to test out the waters with the other female auditors during busy season.
This is way beyond things not being at their best in your relationship.
This is mutual physical assault.
I know too many women in abusive relationships with other women who just refuse to do the right thing and end it (I am a woman married to another woman, fwiw). Instead, they both act stubborn and continue to be martyrs because they're too afraid to be alone. They don't realize that being alone is so much better than living this way.
He raped you and you want to fix him? I don't think so. Run
That's a weird reaction. Has she behaved this way before?
That's gonna be tough for strangers to help you with as we don't know you or your gf. Me, when I was younger, I did use the “break” at least once to end a relationship… but thats me, not her. On the other hand, we don't know her, so we can't say she is just taking a temp break. Not sure you'll be able to get a good answer to this, based on the info we have.