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Move on and leave your wife
Isn't this just a difference in men and women? Isn't it kind of ridiculous for the therapist to suggest that men are somehow disfunctional for not approaching problems the same way women do?
Like, I spend my whole day fixing million dollar machines that are malfunctioning, not consoling people with empathy and affirmation. Of course if you bring me a problem I'm going to try to actually fix it…
My wife knows this, if she's having a problem she needs emotional support with then she's going to go to her BFF, or other girlfriends, or her mom or grandma. Not to her dad or her brother or me, but she'll go to us immediately when it's a problem that needs actual fixing.
And if I text my friend Steve asking for help because my God dam computer won't boot, I don't want from him to be like “aw shucks man, it's okay, don't get upset, it'll be okay” no… I expect him to be “what is it doing, what have you tried, okay try this, and this, and that.”
But if I say to my wife “my God dam computer won't boot” then I don't expect any of that practical shit from her. From her I actually do expect “aw that sucks babe, how bout we go for a hike to take your mind off it” or “let's make tacos for dinner to cheer you up”
Is it really so wrong for men and women to be different?
Sounds like the therapist was asking about yout husband's thoughts on the relationship. Sounds like she's trying to gage what he wants and will move on to make suggestions with him for what he can do. My therapist does the same thing. “How do you feel about x?” “What are your goals with y?” “What changes are you looking for and where do you want to end up?”
Sounds like you may be reading into too much what she's actually doing. Unless she's saying “you should divorce your wife” then maybe take a chill pill and don't worry about things that aren't even real rn
Lotta women feel like they’re gonna die if they’re single at 30. I don’t get it and wasn’t raised that way but it was amazing how many weddings happened around then. Many of which are now divorced.
I will absolutely be giving her the option to change first. If she can't, or won't, then we can break it off.
Are you married, or are you married?
I've never paid my wife back a dime she has spent on me and would never expect her to.
It sounds like you and your husband need to have a long conversation about how money is going to work in your relationship.
I'm sorry to not reply earlier,my parents never interfere in anythint. I just absentmindedly wrote that my mom likes it but nothing else.
Obviously he wouldn’t or he would have tried to move things past being friends.
Is it possible that those nieces are actually his daughters and you're his side piece without knowing it? idk. It's just kind of suspicious.
Love is a choice and clearly he’s made his. Cut your losses and go. He’s never gonna be the man you want him to be.
Make him an ex asap. When my ex was cheating on me he gave the same line of “well you didn’t ask” he also doubled down with the ridiculous “I didn’t lie, I just omitted information that you didn’t need to know” You deserve better, and someone who will respect you and not treat you like you are an idiot that can’t figure shit out.
7 year marriage and there’s sexual incompatibility…
Money issues aside there is definitely more to this story than you’re letting on. Why not just divorce before starting this open marriage mess?
Who knows. I wouldn't waste my time trying to figure out what happened. You'll find a woman who is interested and who will make time for you.