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Please check some resources on eating disorders and see if she exhibits some typical traits. If she does, check a guide on how to approach a subject like this. They might even have helpful advice even if ED isn’t the problem. And make sure any guides and resources you check are made by experts.
Trying to make her eat is unlikely to help. She should see a medical doctor about any health concerns, but you can’t force her.
I'm sorry my dude, but there's no way to salvage this. She's made her choice to not help at all and to cheat on you even with your children still around. There's just no coming back from that. Take the time to tell the kids what's happening, and mentally prepare them and yourself for the storm ahead
I get where you are coming from, I know they are a touchy subject for many couples. I’ll also put out there that we aren’t monogamous, so our boundaries are different than many other couples. My partner thinks other women interacting with me is hard (as long as it’s real, so she’s not into strip clubs for that reason).
I think any of those limits in the relationship are ok, they just need to be discussed and nothing hidden!
You’ve had 2 years and multiple chances to change and only now when he’s sick of your crap and leaves you, you decide to get help? How can he ever believe your going to stick to it and change?
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Please check some resources on eating disorders and see if she exhibits some typical traits. If she does, check a guide on how to approach a subject like this. They might even have helpful advice even if ED isn’t the problem. And make sure any guides and resources you check are made by experts.
Trying to make her eat is unlikely to help. She should see a medical doctor about any health concerns, but you can’t force her.
I'm sorry my dude, but there's no way to salvage this. She's made her choice to not help at all and to cheat on you even with your children still around. There's just no coming back from that. Take the time to tell the kids what's happening, and mentally prepare them and yourself for the storm ahead
I get where you are coming from, I know they are a touchy subject for many couples. I’ll also put out there that we aren’t monogamous, so our boundaries are different than many other couples. My partner thinks other women interacting with me is hard (as long as it’s real, so she’s not into strip clubs for that reason).
I think any of those limits in the relationship are ok, they just need to be discussed and nothing hidden!
Move on. She clearly disrespects you.
I use a duvet where I can take the cover off and wash it. For me top sheets get wonky and bunched up.
War? Why should there be a gender war? I'm not picking up arms against my grandmother, wife and daughter.
You said you expected him to do the same but did you actually discuss being exclusive?
Also, if someone is talking marriage after 3 dates, there’s something wrong with them. Either they’re love bombing or have really poor judgement.
And what weight is he pulling?
You’ve had 2 years and multiple chances to change and only now when he’s sick of your crap and leaves you, you decide to get help? How can he ever believe your going to stick to it and change?
I read the first two paragraphs. Dear.god just leave this guy. Try again with someone new. This is a train wreck.