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Lilu and Max, y.o.
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Date: October 7, 2022
Lilu and Max, y.o.
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I think there is nothing toxic about it. You decided you don’t care to hangout with the opposite sex without each other and that’s perfectly fine. It’s your relationship so it shouldn’t matter what anyone thinks tbh.
One: they're literally asking us to judge.
Two: I'm just not sure how people can be this unaware of how abusive and toxic relationships actually function. If your understanding of gender dynamics and your partner is such that they literally can't have friendships with someone of a gender their attracted to, that represents toxic ideas about sex, about gender, and about their partner's character.
Ohh who people said it on social media makes it correct. No wonder majority people will be lonely by age 40 and now likely will never find a mate what’s going.
Red flag is when your partner don’t care about you , not opposite. Oh forgot social media is always right. Jesus , are you over 30 plus and now bitter ? Just be honest.
Labels are just shortcuts. If he doesn't like labels, you can discuss what are your boundaries and expectations without labels.
Does he want to be exclusive, does he expect to be with you for a long time, what kind of decisions you two will consult with each other. You can decide this without a label.
But if being able to clearly say to others that you two are together is important to you, that's fine and it's something you both need to agree on.
It’s hell yes or hell no, sister. Don’t give yourself to someone who thinks of you as an option.
You're digging into kind of the funny part of the issue; she's a bit disorganized, and as I can relate, a procrastinator. I've been trying to get her to schedule an appointment with the eye doctor for a new prescription for… Probably our entire relationship, since I learned from her family that she needed glasses, but she stopped wearing them? Off-topic, I know, but just an example of what I'm talking about.
She did have that “a-ha” moment reading about this being side effects of SSRI's about a month ago, it's on her mind, but I wonder if she's actually scheduled an appointment or not… With it just not being a huge priority of hers and all, maybe she prefers staying on her current meds and casting the side effects, well, to the side.
And beyond that, I get what you're saying. I don't want to force her into changing her prescription if the alternative doesn't work for her as well as the current one does.
I really appreciate the input. I'll keep it in mind moving forward.
There is, unfortunately very little that one can do to fix someone else’s horrible parenting that falls short of abuse. I’d just try to be there for the kids as they grow up so they can get some idea of what a stable home environment looks like.