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Birth Date: 1992-09-22
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
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Date: October 29, 2022
I can't imagine a lawyer telling you not to contact your child for three years. I'd tell him to get stuffed. What a lot of ammunition you handed your ex wife. And yes, you did sort of abandon your son.
Glad you stuck yo tour boundaries. He's experienced more than you have. You still have things you want to do and that's ok.
You set boundaries and he blatantly ignored them. I see nothing wrong with your handling of it.
I’m not acting like it wasn’t consensual. read other comment. I am NOT SAYING HE DID ANYTHING TO ME!!!!
Communication communication communication!!! So many people underestimate the value of being blunt. So many fights begin and end with an expectation that your partner just understands what you want when you want it.
I feel bad for the cat, I can’t see bathing it 4 times a week doing anything other than stressing TFFFF out of that poor cat. How big is the place you’re at? You’re closing it out of what sounds like at least HALF of the place. Kinda fucked up when you consider that apartment is their WHOLE world and you’re making it smaller. Maybe next time don’t take someone with a cat genius.
I guess I feel like there is balance there but my partner maybe doesn’t and then in that case my solution is for her to pursue hobbies and her own passions whereas her solution if for me to be home
This last sentence of your post clearly shows why your wife is upset.
You believe there's balance but she does not.
You are responding to her desire to spend more time together by saying “No. Go find your own hobby, because I'm not going to stop working out every evening.”
You are telling her too bad for her if she doesn't like it. You are telling her your solution is for her to stop feeling the way she feels, and listen to your advice.
The advice you are giving her is for your benefit, not hers.
You are saying hobby>work>marriage.
Have you considered going back to university and making a career change into something that would incorporate your passion for working out?
Your wife wants more time together with you for activities that don't have to be scripted into your lives. Home projects, spontaneous choices to watch a film together or go out somewhere, maybe socialize with others, or plan what your marriage will look like next year.
Do you come home from work and cook and eat dinner together before you go to the gym?
Okay? So then by your own admission there’s no problem in this scenario. So why did you bring it up in the first place?
You were far kinder than I would have been.
I have said this before and I will say it again, the past is a learning experience. The real thing you should be considering is whether staying will be throwing away a future you could have had with a better partner. So worrying about the past and look to the future.
How many additional years are you ready to flush down the toilet in the hope that he can learn this lesson without losing relationships because of it?
This is simple insecurity from your wife regarding what appears to be your first time with an assistant, so if your post is what it is and we can believe it as nothing more on your end, then this suspicion is baseless. However, she’s your wife so you obviously want to reassure her. You shouldn’t have to explain it in grave detail to her and you should be able to talk about work without walking on egg shells. That’s you being open. If it were me, I’d simply reassure her like you have while also calling her out on her accusations because if they are unjust then they are also unfair to not only you but herself. For future reference, not that it’s completely necessary for all couples, perhaps you should inform her of lunches with female colleagues prior to having them. Personally I find that a bit over the top because it was a weekly meeting, but to each their own and for some spouses I could see that being necessary. I don’t mean that in a rude way whatsoever, just everyone is different so it seems like it could be a communication problem. This may be a situation in which you either need to set clear boundaries or over communicate.
“Honey, I’ve noticed that you have taken to worrying about my new assistant. As you know, it is illegal to hire an assistant based off of their gender. Marcie was hired because she was the most qualified applicant when I accepted this promotion. I love you very much and am concerned by your commentary towards my employee. I do not want you worrying or thinking that anything is happening with this individual outside of a normal working relationship. I’m not sure how I can comfort you, but please let me know what questions you have and what will put your mind at ease. We have had an incredible marriage filled with trust, but as my professional growth continues, I will potentially be put in more situations in which I need to work with younger women. You come first in my life but I need you to understand the value I place on our marriage and the respect I have for you. While I cannot fire my assistant for no reason, as she does a good job, it is important to me we have open communication in our marriage and that you feel comfortable. Can we please sit down and talk about this? I should be able to openly talk about my work and those I work with. Could we clear the air and move forward? If I’m doing something that is worrying you, I’d like the chance to be in the know so we can address it.”
Listen to her and hold her. See how you can move past these insecurities and find out where they stem from.
You did the right thing! The question is, why didn't they tell you he had a gf or tell her about you? Obviously with you two interacting in the bar, they knew something was up. More than likely, he bangs girls all the time, including some of them. They don't rock the boat, because he'll fire them. Garbage people belong together in the trash. Move on.
Not that this is an excuse but I'm wondering if he had a dog as a kid that got loose and was never found. That would be the only thing that I can think of that would trigger this kind of over-reaction.