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Trust your gut. 2 months in, already feeling uneasy and worried about more dishonesty?? I’d nope right out of this before it goes any further.
Man….. are you dating my ex? He’s a 38 year old man. You’ve been very clear about what you want and he’s continued to string you along (insanely selfish, you are a woman and therefore on a timeline if you want a family). Entering a marriage under the current circumstances will create resentment for you both…. He is going to feel like he was coerced into it, you are going to feel like you had to threaten to get him to commit. That sucks on both ends. He’s telling you what you want to hear because he knows there is a real possibility of losing you. So, say you get the ring, he thinks ok now we are good, and you end up repeating the exact same thing trying to get a wedding date set. He will have more excuses.
Common knowledge about female fertility is incredibly dated. Most information you will see online and hear people repeating is still based on a French study done in the 1700’s. There is a paper by David Dunson published in 2004, and it’s finding show about 82% of women between 35-39 get pregnant within a year. For comparison, it’s 86% for age 37-34. Not exactly a big drop there. And these are stats from 2004, we are almost 20 years down the road with medical advancements.
My point is- sounds like this guy is not going to give you the things you want, but you have plenty of time to go find one who will.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, I empathize ❤️
You're already being treated as a single mother so you may as well act like it. Hire the cleaner, order your thoughts and kick the manchild into touch.
He seems to be manipulating and gaslighting you. Why have kids with him?
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Sigh it’s so naked but oddly enough I don’t feel as hurt now then I did on Friday. I cried a lot but I did tell him he can reach out to me whenever he is ready to talk. I’m not one to hate an ex unless I was cheated on and he’s never done anything like that . I’m just more mad that we are both in the mature age and he should have respected me more and spoken to me. It just seems he got cold feet because we talked about marriages and kids and proposals and stuff but those conversations only happened whenever it was brought up.
I seriously think he’s the one with the problem, not you, OP. Especially since you’re sore afterwards.
I had a girlfriend a long time ago who would get so wet that I couldn’t feel anything. I would suspect that is the problem not that you’re “loose.”
You do realize that the vagina stretches enough during childbirth to allow a baby to pass, which is way bigger than any penis? It also shrinks back to normal size after intercourse.
There is nothing wrong with you, OP. The problem is your boyfriend.
Tl;Dr, I'm not feeling very hopeful about this guy becoming a good partner to you, OP. ?
I don't think there's a formula you can come up with for good communication with him; it looks like it all revolves around the whims of his moods.
From where I stand, it looks like he's becoming complacent and not trying as hot as he felt like he had to in the beginning of the relationship. In other words, this was who he really was all along; you didn't bring this out of him.
In small, tolerable ways, “not trying as hard” happens to all of us over the course of a long-term relationship! No one acts like they're making a first impression every day with a partner of 30 years; you have to let your guard down and be vulnerable to be open to being loved unconditionally, warts and all. But, even as 30 & 40 years and more go by, both partners are also open to growing together into better people for each other and for the relationship, and this version of your partner kind of letting his guard down after the honeymoon period is detrimental to the growth of your partnership. It's selfish, it shuts you out, it's intolerant and intolerable, and it's not your job to fix it. If I were you, I'd be making arrangements to move out and move on.