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Date: January 13, 2023
I understand that. That is my gut-wrenching reaction, too. It just really upsets me that I would even think about that. This is a man that I've adamantly loved for two years. Technically, 1 year, since I realized it a year ago.
Have you ever met in person? How many times? For how long each time?
Please don't say you haven't met yet.
And even if you have met once or twice, this isn't nearly enough to get to know a person and make decisions like being in a relationship and moving together. People can behave completely differently on screen than in person, we tend to only show what we want the other person to see. It's a facade and it's normal. What isn't normal and healthy, is to base one's judgment about the person on this very limited part of them we have gotten to know. You don't know how he acts in day to day life and handles different situations. How does he handle real conflict? Difference of opinion? Daily life struggles? Does he even want to be a father figure all over again?
It's already a red flag in his character that he engaged with a married woman with young children. Who says he won't start an live affair with the next woman once life with you begins to feel mundane? I mean he had no problem doing it with you, so who says he won't do it TO you?
When we aren't actively addressing our issues – such as abandonment and codependency issues like you mentioned -, we tend to feel drawn to equally unhealthy individuals. It sounds like you are still neck deep in your codependency and acting from that space.
Tbh, this kind of stuff happens a little bit more than guys realize. There’s so many men out there who don’t go down on girls and just come up with their own excuses, the same way guys complain girls don’t give BJ’s a lot, we also get the same treatment back.
I’ve met a couple myself, experienced one. He said his tongue was too short to give oral comfortably- okay fine, but he lied when he met me saying he loooves giving oral to keep me hooked and I said it was a requirement. I almost left him when he admitted he lied. I wish I left earlier because our sex life started to become very whatever about a year and a few months into our relationship and we broke up anyway.
Just to point out the other side because my situation is somewhat common based on similar stories I’ve received over the years from my girl friends too.
That being said, it could still be an infection. It depends on the girl because some girls go in yearly for exams and upkeep their vaginal health through doctors, and some girls put it off. We don’t know if this girl goes to doctor appointments or not, ya know?
Dude. You’re 26. Grow tf up.
I got no problems with your living at home, but find some stones, pick up your bills. Your parents aren’t going to be around forever. Wtf are you going to do when they die? Figure it out now while you have a safety net still in place and someone you trust to get advice from.
I would strongly advise therapy for you if you're not already in it, because my dear what you are experiencing is compassion and empathy from another person and you are panicking lol! What he is doing is a good thing! We all have baggage, flaws, and trauma. Literally no one is perfect. He is still attracted to you and this is a good thing, this is what decent human beings are capable of lol.
Remember; be kinder to yourself. You are not broken.
You need to nope out of that.
You're not sexually compatible.
Extremely creepy, I'd be worried about this guy's mental state if he's inventing fake stories this elaborate.
I can see Mark caring, but why did I fucked up with his friend? I thought I was behaving in the right way with Bob, did I do something wrong?
You immediately jumped into the conclusion that I asked for sex? Damn ok
Oh heck no. He took inordinate offense to something minor, called you STUPID in front of your kids, and generally acted like a hormonal tween. You apologized for inadvertently hurting his feelings, that is plenty. Be a good example to your children and stand up for yourself!
OP You brought her into your family’s home. They were bound to get attached. It’s not fair of you to try and break the bond you started.
Can’t you think of her as a sister and stop seeing your GF and your ex as competitors vying for your parents time and affection? We have many ex-es in our family, everybody is welcome around the table and it works fine
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