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Date: November 3, 2022
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He got violent over someone approaching you in a way he didn’t like. He is unstable and just a straight up bastard for not believing you.
I spent 1.5 years with someone who accused me for everything from poisoning his food to cheating on him while I was in line at Dunkin Donuts to get us coffee. No one on the face of this fucking planet is worth this kind of mess and stress. Get out, now, before you end up like me with fairly severe PTSD from that relationship.
Normally I’d say be gone, she lied to you about being single…but…y’all didn’t even go on a date until after she actually broke up. And her sexts where after she only met you? Y’all weren’t even dating yet as I understand it.
I’d chalk this up to a young person mistake. If you found all this shit out it probably means she told you so she’s being honest now.
You’re no homewrecker cmon
Hes fucking his friends, just thought i should let you know
I’m so sorry the excitement of this movie was ruined by this event.
For me, the hurt would be doubled because it happened during something that meant so much to me.
I’d be very cautious about him and his behaviour going forward and any more signs of anger or aggression would make me remove myself from the relationship until he did work on his anger in therapy.
My friend with PCOS thought the same and had twins
People can change but only when they decide to. Unfortunately you being patient and trying to help is putting yourself and the kids in harm's way, and low key enabling her to continue because she has no reason to change if she does this stuff and still you stay. The power is in your hands to change things. Leave her and keep yourself and the kids safe. Staying with her could get you hurt or worse, and it is what will destroy your children, not leaving. Show your kids they don't have to accept being treated like this by being an example for healthy conflict resolution. You tried and I commend you, but it's past the point of waiting for her to meet you half way. Please leave, if not for yourself then for the kids. They deserve better too. You deserve better.
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This made me laugh out loud.
I'm sorry, but are you actually telling us there are two options here for all of this and one of them is to try to save your marriage?
I would definitely recommend therapy, but for you, to help you figure out why saving this marriage is even in your brain!
The next time your ex-husband calls you tell him the next time you talk to him you want both of your lawyers in the room.
But, before you do that, take half of the cash in the joint bank accounts and put it in an account in your name only. Make sure you have documents for any and all joint credit cards, retirement accounts (his and yours), get a current mortgage statement, anything related to your finances at all.
If you need to buy some time, do what I did to my serial cheating ex and tell him you need some time to think and will get back to him in a couple days or so.
Once you've met with an attorney, once the paperwork is filed, arrange to meet him for lunch “to discuss” things, and that's when you have him served with the divorce. Do this in a public place, preferably his work cafeteria, surrounded by people he knows and has been pulling the wool over they're eyes like he's some kind of saint and you the crazy one, and when he's served, you stand up, throw your napkin down on the table, and say in a loud voice, “THAT'S what fucking your sister gets you!” And walk away with your head high.
we don’t use the funds for anything marriage related
So if you use $1 for anything marriage related then it's all game? Like dad wants to give you guys a honeymoon and funds it out of the account. Or a downpayment for a house. Or kid's school tuition.
Odds are at some point some of that money will be used for something marriage related.
Why would you come here to say this? It's very common for women in abusive/DV situations to minimise the behaviour as a coping strategy. Instead of this victim blaming bullshit, how about something constructive to help validate her feelings and help her make sense of what's happened.
I would have suggested therapy and counseling but your only 21 years old. If you’ve been together for 5 years that means you started dating at 16. You were babies then and still are. The amount of growth that happens between 16 and 21 is immense. The amount of growth that will happen for you two between 21 to 30 will be even more significant. All I’m trying to say is you’re both very young and figuring things out.
Chances are you were the first long term relationships for each other. This sucks and you probably don’t wanna hear it but there’s a chance this has run it’s course for her.
Have a conversation with her because it’s not fair to either of you to be in limbo like this. She might love you but not be in love with you. You both deserve better.