I think it’s past counseling at this point from what I’ve followed. I would just revisit the value you find in the relationship and really weigh out if you’d go through it happening more than once, and if you can’t you should leave imo. Once means forever, people only change when they want to, and people who do these kinds of things are manipulating you into thinking there is something wrong with you. I’m a bi male, and I can’t think of a single situation that my sexuality would play into when it comes to cheating. That’s an entirely other issue and part of the mind.
In case of divorce or anything it's better your name and your name only is on the house.
She wasn't asking to be put on the fucking mortgage, she is saying “Hey, you couldn't have asked for my opinion?” Inviting her along to the showings and getting her opinions would not entitle her to the house, and nor would it have hurt OP to find a house that they could both like.
How do you, a guy, not notice when your friend throws an after party for a pre-wedding event…. and then not invite the soon to be bride..? How blind do you have to be?
We (guys) have no say in the matter all. We provided the sperm and we did it knowingly. It is completely out of our hands at that point. I mean, you can’t un-ring a bell
This guy isn't your friend, I'm sorry. He's using “friendship” to keep pushing for a relationship. This is one of those “nice guys” who thinks he's in the “friendzone” and aims to bust out of it – he's also the type of guy that when he realises he's not getting out of the “friendzone” is going to get really bitter and nasty, because it's not and will never be about actually being your friend, he thinks if he's nice enough you will be obliged to give in to his romantic advances.
Then break-up? Seriously. You’re not married, you have no kids, you probably don’t share a house or finances. It’s not working, just be mature and accept you don’t like or trust him. Could he be married? Have secret kids? He’s 34…
I think it’s past counseling at this point from what I’ve followed. I would just revisit the value you find in the relationship and really weigh out if you’d go through it happening more than once, and if you can’t you should leave imo. Once means forever, people only change when they want to, and people who do these kinds of things are manipulating you into thinking there is something wrong with you. I’m a bi male, and I can’t think of a single situation that my sexuality would play into when it comes to cheating. That’s an entirely other issue and part of the mind.
In case of divorce or anything it's better your name and your name only is on the house.
She wasn't asking to be put on the fucking mortgage, she is saying “Hey, you couldn't have asked for my opinion?” Inviting her along to the showings and getting her opinions would not entitle her to the house, and nor would it have hurt OP to find a house that they could both like.
You're happy about him being interested, because that's why you go on a date with him.
Tell him nothing will happen, you'll see.
P.S. You're both wrong.
How do you, a guy, not notice when your friend throws an after party for a pre-wedding event…. and then not invite the soon to be bride..? How blind do you have to be?
We (guys) have no say in the matter all. We provided the sperm and we did it knowingly. It is completely out of our hands at that point. I mean, you can’t un-ring a bell
This guy isn't your friend, I'm sorry. He's using “friendship” to keep pushing for a relationship. This is one of those “nice guys” who thinks he's in the “friendzone” and aims to bust out of it – he's also the type of guy that when he realises he's not getting out of the “friendzone” is going to get really bitter and nasty, because it's not and will never be about actually being your friend, he thinks if he's nice enough you will be obliged to give in to his romantic advances.
Then break-up? Seriously. You’re not married, you have no kids, you probably don’t share a house or finances. It’s not working, just be mature and accept you don’t like or trust him. Could he be married? Have secret kids? He’s 34…