I would not be surprised if this was some kind of test to see what she would Get away with.
Pretty much, these people like to push the boundaries to see what you accept as treatment, under a fake guise of triggers. That's why it always gets worse.
Flip the script and people would be calling the cops for domestic.
It'd be nice to see her reaction when her sister mentions ring shopping, however. Like, 'wow, you must have F'd that one up big time sis'.
Anyone who says you did nothing wrong is sick. This is not something you can shrug off. It would be understandable if you slept with someone who wasn’t related to your wife. That could be excused. But fucking your SIL three times after your wife has only been dead for six months is fucked up and I don’t care how much downvotes I get. I hope you both get therapy and get better but that’s sickening.
I didn’t say or imply it’s my husband fault. I was simply explaining that I may be feeling this way because our marriage is this way. And Im trying to figure out how to fix it… But sure, call me an emotional cheater or whatever you want, thanks
He sounds like someone who gets complacent once they think they have you locked down, looks like it may be a pattern for him, maybe yours is not seeing the signs? No judgement there, I went from one abusive relationship to another and my second was worse! Im all about being too understanding to a literal fault
Ive done a couple tests today and I didn’t even use my first urine and it showed up very quickly so there is a chance i could be further along then it says.
Your bf feels entitled to your body. He’s bought into the belief that anything one does for a woman warrants sexual favors after. This will not get better with time. You need to determine if this is a deal breaker for you.
You dad is right.
I would not be surprised if this was some kind of test to see what she would Get away with.
Pretty much, these people like to push the boundaries to see what you accept as treatment, under a fake guise of triggers. That's why it always gets worse.
Flip the script and people would be calling the cops for domestic.
It'd be nice to see her reaction when her sister mentions ring shopping, however. Like, 'wow, you must have F'd that one up big time sis'.
Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: Yes, with the one you told him not to worry about.
Anyone who says you did nothing wrong is sick. This is not something you can shrug off. It would be understandable if you slept with someone who wasn’t related to your wife. That could be excused. But fucking your SIL three times after your wife has only been dead for six months is fucked up and I don’t care how much downvotes I get. I hope you both get therapy and get better but that’s sickening.
*Ex girlfriend
That shit is an automatic no. I don’t tolerate that. She’s not an angel. She’s cruel.
The comment I was responding to said girl.
She used to tell me that all the time, it means nothing he's just liking my photos why do you care?
Then I saw the DMs and realized my gut instinct was right.
When I asked to see her phone she just started crying. Didn't even unlock it at that point. I knew exactly why she was crying.
So while maybe op is being insecure to an extreme, I know first hand why he's feeling the way he is right now.
I didn’t say or imply it’s my husband fault. I was simply explaining that I may be feeling this way because our marriage is this way. And Im trying to figure out how to fix it… But sure, call me an emotional cheater or whatever you want, thanks
He sounds like someone who gets complacent once they think they have you locked down, looks like it may be a pattern for him, maybe yours is not seeing the signs? No judgement there, I went from one abusive relationship to another and my second was worse! Im all about being too understanding to a literal fault
Ive done a couple tests today and I didn’t even use my first urine and it showed up very quickly so there is a chance i could be further along then it says.
Your bf feels entitled to your body. He’s bought into the belief that anything one does for a woman warrants sexual favors after. This will not get better with time. You need to determine if this is a deal breaker for you.