Getting a job in a new city is a pretty good indicator that he’s ready to end things. Getting in a fight on that leads to throwing the ring down the sink isn’t like accidentally saying you hate someone. I’d say these are some pretty good indicators he wants out.
It's not true. What your ex wants isn't poly, it's the ability to sleep with whoever he wants and he was trying to bully you into doing what he wanted. I'm sure he's aware of the fact that there will be very few women who would be okay with “one sided poly.” I hesitate to even call it poly because that's not the definition of it as I know it.
But listen to me, OP, don't give up on love. You can find someone loyal. This guy just isn't it.
Famous last words…the fact alone that your “friend” comes to mind first should let alarms go off in your wife's head. If they are not already there (if you are honest to yourself) there will be feelings for or from the “friend” at some point.
THIS.
this right here.
All day, this here….
Getting a job in a new city is a pretty good indicator that he’s ready to end things. Getting in a fight on that leads to throwing the ring down the sink isn’t like accidentally saying you hate someone. I’d say these are some pretty good indicators he wants out.
Is this the same guy from some of your other posts? If so, please find someone else.
He seems like an arse.
Based on this post and others he shows minimal interest in you, which screams you're a placeholder until something better comes along for him.
It's not true. What your ex wants isn't poly, it's the ability to sleep with whoever he wants and he was trying to bully you into doing what he wanted. I'm sure he's aware of the fact that there will be very few women who would be okay with “one sided poly.” I hesitate to even call it poly because that's not the definition of it as I know it.
But listen to me, OP, don't give up on love. You can find someone loyal. This guy just isn't it.
Famous last words…the fact alone that your “friend” comes to mind first should let alarms go off in your wife's head. If they are not already there (if you are honest to yourself) there will be feelings for or from the “friend” at some point.
And he ain’t gonna be letting you have anymore in the future too.
No should be “[not] letting” you do what you want. You’re an adult in control of your life.
They put me into therapy the first year i arrived but i didn’t speak to anyone so they gave up
Definitely am. I know my worth and I’m not gonna let him bring me down! I deserve better.
I think you should leave your husband and kids so they can form a family that's fully committed with someone else.
You can enjoy chasing something authentic.
I think shes made it pretty clear shes not interested…not sure what the confusion is.
No idea but considering his age and porn habits, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s observed kids to satisfy him irl.
She’s started flirting with or fucking someone else and doesn’t want him to see you.