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Date: October 11, 2022
The messages between them were fairly innocent??? That’s the OPPOSITE of fairly innocent!!
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So then the advice to OP should be to accept responsibility for not communicating her expectations of others and to carry that lesson into future relationships, yes?
Do you know if she even likes spas? It doesn't sound like she does. Tbh if my husband showed up at my work and tried to whisk me away in the middle of it, I would be more annoyed than anything. I don't like surprises and I don't like sudden changes in plans, especially when I have planned accordingly for something else. Coupled with the fact she wasn't in a good headspace, it wasn't a good move. Then you made it all about yourself. You sound more like you care about what you did for her and the work it took you than if she actually wanted or enjoyed it. Then pouted because she spoiled your time and didn't earn you any “good boy points”. The entire way you talk about this is so self-centered it's nauseating.
Lol get a hobby, make a different friend, seek therapy, but please try to avoid becoming the next embarrassing life lesson. 1) he's married- walk away with some self respect 2) he's a mentor – anything romantic he does with you is an abuse of his authority, and he should lose his position over it. There is nothing “developing” between you except his recognition that an orgasm might be had with his latest sperm receptacle. If he's making eyes at you while freshly married what makes you think you are just the most recent in a long line of temporary human fleshlights he arranges year after year. 3) workplace romances are discouraged for reasons. You seem unstable, do you think you can juggle education, work, and being a homewrecker? What did his spouse do to you to make it okay for you to skank after her husband? Take a cold shower, buy a sex toy, and grow up.
Amen. a lot of these comments seem to be very confused about certain things in life.
Your arrogance doesn’t do you any favors. Just divorce him and stop twisting your narrative to be perceived as the victim when that’s quite clearly not the whole story.
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I'd like to add, since I haven't seen it that much in the comments: dating is not the be all end all of human connection, even for those of us with autism. I definitely recommend trying out new hobbies. Maybe see if your local library/parks and rec/continuing education department run programs and try going to those? Depending on your location, there might be casual sports you can join to meet people (my brother did an adult kickball league and it helped him to interact with others more), or maybe a trivia league? Volunteering can also be a good way to meet people, or at least bring yourself to leave the house and interact with others.
You may also benefit from a support group for people who have lost their partners. It can help you both to process your grief and to not isolate yourself.
If you don't feel ready to move on, that's okay. If you do feel ready, that's also okay. You aren't betraying her, and it does not diminish how much you loved her. The depth of your grief or how long you openly grieve does not have any bearing on how important she was to you. That said, it doesn't seem like you are ready, from what you've written here
You are totally right. If you love the person, get out right now so you can find yourself again and properly love the person