I did mention that it's difficult to let go and I've heard this advice before. I'm unable to move forward with this advice for personal reasons. It's not easy to leave someone you love, is it?
“When you did X (specific) behavior I feel like it gave Y impression and that made me feel uncomfortable. I know that wasn’t your intention because (insert compliment). Could you please pay attention to social cues from (friends/staff) next time we’re at a nice restaurant next time? I would not have a problem with specific X behavior at a place like (Applebees/Dennys etc) because (reasons). However, at a place like (insert examples here), there’s the social expectation that you display certain manners.
He's FIFTEEN years your senior and netiher of you is talking in person about what you want in bed? Jfc. What are you doing? You're almost 30, surely you can muster up the courage to tell him: “hey, I would like to have sex with you”. Maybe that way you'll know what he's on about. Perhaps he's shy, too respectful, or straight up a weirdo, who knows.
If he can’t talk about this with you and make this make sense, he’s not going to be a good father. Parenting is about communication and he’s showing you that he will not communicate when it comes to child rearing. Red flag. This seems very controlling as well. And what is his vision for the child’s academics is too much for said child and they come to you for help. What will you do then?
Please don’t agree to this. He needs to make it make sense ASAP
In person can be a jarringly different vibe than messaging on-line. I've been out of the online dating game for a while but I did resolve to not text for more than a week if possible after a few incidents of awkward/zero chemistry dates despite having really good conversations over the app or texting. They were usually nice enough but there was just no connection there.
I did mention that it's difficult to let go and I've heard this advice before. I'm unable to move forward with this advice for personal reasons. It's not easy to leave someone you love, is it?
Print the screen shots, mail them to her without a return address. Use a regular stamp.
You may also want to talk to HR about his behaviour in the workplace as it's making at least one person uncomfortable.
I'm on team 'follow your dreams'. You're only young once 🙂
“When you did X (specific) behavior I feel like it gave Y impression and that made me feel uncomfortable. I know that wasn’t your intention because (insert compliment). Could you please pay attention to social cues from (friends/staff) next time we’re at a nice restaurant next time? I would not have a problem with specific X behavior at a place like (Applebees/Dennys etc) because (reasons). However, at a place like (insert examples here), there’s the social expectation that you display certain manners.
Absolutely it’s fake , someone drunk and wants to get attention to post things like that lol
I'd like to follow this up with – have we run out of vibrators and/or batteries?
He's FIFTEEN years your senior and netiher of you is talking in person about what you want in bed? Jfc. What are you doing? You're almost 30, surely you can muster up the courage to tell him: “hey, I would like to have sex with you”. Maybe that way you'll know what he's on about. Perhaps he's shy, too respectful, or straight up a weirdo, who knows.
If he can’t talk about this with you and make this make sense, he’s not going to be a good father. Parenting is about communication and he’s showing you that he will not communicate when it comes to child rearing. Red flag. This seems very controlling as well. And what is his vision for the child’s academics is too much for said child and they come to you for help. What will you do then?
Please don’t agree to this. He needs to make it make sense ASAP
In person can be a jarringly different vibe than messaging on-line. I've been out of the online dating game for a while but I did resolve to not text for more than a week if possible after a few incidents of awkward/zero chemistry dates despite having really good conversations over the app or texting. They were usually nice enough but there was just no connection there.