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I honestly don't think that you can just be friends. You were tossed out of a decent length relationship, and there are obviously feelings involved. Honestly, trying to keep a relationship as friends won't work. It just builds hope that he might change his mind and get back together with you.
It is a recipe for emotional disaster.
If he found the relationship too full of conflict and broke up saying he “has lost love” for you because of this, then truly the story about he still loves you and perhaps, maybe, with some pipe dream with pixie-dust, there's a possible glimmer there could be a chance in 6 months… is really just a fairytale. It's a big fat giant NOPE. Just no. There's no future and friendship is just going to hurt.
He is waffling, softening the blow, hoping to make it less confronting. It is over. This is just a weaning process at this point.
Just call it done. Block him, unfollow, delete him from your life.
If if he changed HIS mind, you will feel this hurt, that instead of working through issues he just dumped you and said he'd lost feelings for you – you're going to have that hanging there. You now know that when things go bad he's a dump and run – There's no real future here.
It wouldn’t be a problem in a secure relationship where desire is alive for each other. It is a problem in a relationship where one person is using their partner to get themselves off vs having a shared experience. And it definitely is a problem when it happens routinely. Your comments don’t are so generalized and don’t reflect the context of the situation or the nuances of OP’s relationship.
So let me get this straight. You have intimate information about the relationship troubles of an opposite gender “friend” who showed she has no problem hurting and betraying people she “loves”. Your wife is rightfully suspicious of this person and you go: But she is not a bad person, she made a dumb mistake by screwing another guy and lying to her husband all day everyday because she was too cowardly or comfortable to leave him. She had no choice but to do something so incredibly selfish! She is my Fwiend!!
You sir are flirting with an emotional affair. My money is on her “needing her best fwiend” support and then woopsy daisy you guys make a mistake but you are not bad people right?? Right?
As a person who was cheated on sadly I know… people who stick with the cheaters end up as cheaters as well! But it is all okay because her husband was a sick right? Is your wife being enough of a sick already? Do you have your excuse to cheat yet?
You guys should break up and find more compatible partners. Some people have different levels of acceptance. I would definitely break up for both of your sakes.
Maybe you'll get to help pick out a name for the child when some random guy gets her pregnant.
are you…are for real? Bc if you are, I def think you should talk to a dr bc you're not being at all reasonable or logical. Being a jerk to him vs “being mad” has the same effect. If you're not so unwell that you cant take care of yourself, why didnt you just get the chocolate yourself?
I'd have to think about it. Nothing comes to mind, but this issue has just overshadowed everything else, so maybe there are other things
The comment I replied to was a more general statement on your part. If i was trying to comment about your OP I would have commented on that instead of a specific comment.
Basically but thank you! I’m going to talk to him and see if it’s something he’s willing to work on
Not putting pressure on him is not accommodating anything, that's the bare ass minimum you can do as a good partner.
You know that he's got trust issues from a bad relationship in the past. How are you going to reassure him that you won't be a repeat of that?
2 things from this comment. I have BPD and I have experienced a lot of the issues you are facing. 1. Having a favourite person is not healthy. Your emotional scale is not a normal emotional scale. Your 10 could be someone else’s 100. You need to accept that because of your disorder no neurotypical person you love will ever feel the exact same way about you that you do them. It will be different. And that’s okay. They will like you or love you to their fullest, and if it’s healthy that will mean living their own lives, having their own friends and enjoying their own hobbies. Without you. This is not abandonment. This is normal. Normal people can be alone without being lonely. For you it will take practice. You say you get sad outside work – so you obviously have time to do things because you have time to get sad. Join a yoga class or a running club. Exercise and meditation are great for BPD.
You use the word love very lightly. You would probably use other words lightly as well. Your bf it seems, does not. This will be a double edged sword for you that if you’re undergoing treatment and working on yourself will help you recognise and develop trust and normal boundaries. Your bf does not say things he doesn’t mean. So you can trust and appreciate his words more. You will also have to steel yourself against feelings of upset and disappointment and when he doesn’t say what you want him to say. For all the people saying that your awful for splitting, don’t stress about that. Just try your best not to split. Sometimes you might mess up. But the important thing is to pick your self control right back up, own your actions and don’t let your symptoms put the blame on anyone else.