This is a terrible thing to say to a guy, OP. Most men are insecure about their dick size, and you said something that directly confirms to him that he doesn’t have a big dick. You also confirmed to him that he’s smaller than you’ve been with. I wouldn’t react well to this either, it sounds incredibly hurtful.
She dated you and was into you until it didn’t work out. The fact that she’s now fucking younger guys isn’t a reflection on you. Don’t worry about what’s going through her head.
If she’s 35 and doesn’t realize guys this age won’t commit to her, that’s definitely an issue on her end. Maybe she’ll realize it at some point, maybe she won’t, but that’s not your problem.
You’re in a much better position and you’ll be able to find someone else who makes you happy, unlike her if she keeps going after younger guys who just use her for sex.
Why does your weight mean anything to him? It is a number on a scale. That number should not determine your self esteem level. Obsessed with you was a Massive Red Flag. Please rethink this relationship.
If you are not comfortable with it then you’re not. Her text sounds like she’s not interested because she has a bf but I’ll think of you if we break up. I mean if you are becoming jealous and stressed then maybe your relationship isn’t worth the hassle.
Yes…understood……
….and until she IS ready….and begins individual counseling…….
she can participate in Couples' work so as to make the best of
Bond under its current circumstances.
You could try WhatsApp for anonymous messaging maybe? Although I don’t quite know how the app works well enough…
This is a terrible thing to say to a guy, OP. Most men are insecure about their dick size, and you said something that directly confirms to him that he doesn’t have a big dick. You also confirmed to him that he’s smaller than you’ve been with. I wouldn’t react well to this either, it sounds incredibly hurtful.
She dated you and was into you until it didn’t work out. The fact that she’s now fucking younger guys isn’t a reflection on you. Don’t worry about what’s going through her head.
If she’s 35 and doesn’t realize guys this age won’t commit to her, that’s definitely an issue on her end. Maybe she’ll realize it at some point, maybe she won’t, but that’s not your problem.
You’re in a much better position and you’ll be able to find someone else who makes you happy, unlike her if she keeps going after younger guys who just use her for sex.
Work on your pull out game.
Why does your weight mean anything to him? It is a number on a scale. That number should not determine your self esteem level. Obsessed with you was a Massive Red Flag. Please rethink this relationship.
If you are not comfortable with it then you’re not. Her text sounds like she’s not interested because she has a bf but I’ll think of you if we break up. I mean if you are becoming jealous and stressed then maybe your relationship isn’t worth the hassle.