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You tell her, and if she wants to pursue the relationship anyway, you move out ASAP.
Here's the thing: some people you date aren't going to be cool with you having close friends that you've had sex with. Some people will think it's fine.
Your only real responsibility here is to tell them and let them make that decision for themselves. If it ends up posing too much of a problem, stop having casual sex with “friends” you literally online with.
You publicly accused your sister’s boyfriend of sexually assaulting you so now that there is evidence showing you were mistaken you need to publicly apologize in the group chat.
I think OP just likes feeling special. Like any intelligent adult could understand there are billions of people on this earth and the idea that your platonic soul mate is a married male celebrity 15yrs older than you that you connected with live! is . . . dumb.
How so? I know I can be needy but nothing wrong with trying to improve and get better, plus you don’t know anyone’s situation or what they’re going through
In my opinion, the key to a happy relationship (and it's backed by the Gottersman institute amongst other very reliable institutions) is a “you and me VS the issue” attitude rather than “who's the issue, who's right/wrong”. It fosters cooperation and strenghten your relationship rather than building resentment or contempt. Works at work and with family too, not just romantic relationships.
I hope you'll find a satisfying resolution to that.
I’m not gaslighting you nor did i put words in your mouth. You literally said that everyone lies about huge things in relationships and that’s just not true. My relationships are none of your business. Again, just because you have a terrible outlook on relationships doesn’t mean everyone else does. Just because yours ended in a dumpster fire doesn’t mean everyone else’s will or does. There are successful relationships that exist. Lying about wanting or not marriage or kids is a huge deal will cause problems.
Some of these responses are wild to me. I do understand what you're saying, but it's only being privvy to this info in the first place that makes people insecure. Me and my current partner haven't discussed our past partners at all, except for the contact he has with his ex who's the mother of his child. He hates hearing anything about my past – so I've tried telling him I'm friends with exes. He doesn't want to know. So, one of my best friends is a guy who's dick I sucked before. I have a few friends who's dick I've ridden and we still speak. Completely platonically. And my boyfriend trusts me so doesn't care or want to know about it. If he did know, then I'm sure he'd feel how you describe, but he's old enough and mature enough to realise that those people are my PAST and so completely irrelevant to our story. He's also a strong enough person that if he found out I did cheat or did anything sus, then he'd act on his boundaries and leave.
She also only has one person from the other side of the family that sent a picture of the dress. Information gets garbled, so double checking that the mother is actually wearing white might be a good first step before blowing everything up (which I would be fine with if the mom is actually wearing white)
She can talk to him first. For weeks. Months. Whatever it takes to find out. End of the day it should her decision as to when. And maybe even attempt a mediator.
But I’m saying court case forst just seems drastic.
Effort shouldn’t mean pay 13000 in court fee’s/lawyer fee’s
That could ruin both of em. Especially if he fights.
But I’ll be damned if you are seriously telling me the ONLY effort should come in the form of paying back child support when she intentionally kept him away(to be fair she was also a child and not only that his reaction was unhealthy as hell… she’s not wrong for blocking him in that time. BUT there were parents involved one could have gotten in touch with the other)
Like we can’t treat this like a case of 2 adults. This was 2 children. Who are now 2 adults. I guarantee you are a completely different person than you at 18 let alone 16.
You tell her, and if she wants to pursue the relationship anyway, you move out ASAP.
Here's the thing: some people you date aren't going to be cool with you having close friends that you've had sex with. Some people will think it's fine.
Your only real responsibility here is to tell them and let them make that decision for themselves. If it ends up posing too much of a problem, stop having casual sex with “friends” you literally online with.
You publicly accused your sister’s boyfriend of sexually assaulting you so now that there is evidence showing you were mistaken you need to publicly apologize in the group chat.
Gross, no one should take pleasure from hurting your partner (unless of course, it is communicated, safe, sane, and consensual).
I think OP just likes feeling special. Like any intelligent adult could understand there are billions of people on this earth and the idea that your platonic soul mate is a married male celebrity 15yrs older than you that you connected with live! is . . . dumb.
How so? I know I can be needy but nothing wrong with trying to improve and get better, plus you don’t know anyone’s situation or what they’re going through
In my opinion, the key to a happy relationship (and it's backed by the Gottersman institute amongst other very reliable institutions) is a “you and me VS the issue” attitude rather than “who's the issue, who's right/wrong”. It fosters cooperation and strenghten your relationship rather than building resentment or contempt. Works at work and with family too, not just romantic relationships.
I hope you'll find a satisfying resolution to that.
Sadly, there is nothing you can say.
You need to own it…say, yep… this is me. I did what I needed to do to survive and I am proud of my journey.
Your current business is not jaded lol Uou are a powerful woman who did more than survive…you thrived.
If he can not see what an awesome queen you are then he doesn't deserve you.
It will hurt… but damn, you don't owe him shit. He is either able to get over his issue (because it is his issue) or not.
Exactly this
OP couldn't give two shits about current boyfriend she is only worried about how this will affect how he sees her
All those firsts they could have had together and she throws it away and smashes this guy for a whole year
And even now keeps this guy around , talk about hedging her bets
This is next level shit , what an awful wife she will make
I’m not gaslighting you nor did i put words in your mouth. You literally said that everyone lies about huge things in relationships and that’s just not true. My relationships are none of your business. Again, just because you have a terrible outlook on relationships doesn’t mean everyone else does. Just because yours ended in a dumpster fire doesn’t mean everyone else’s will or does. There are successful relationships that exist. Lying about wanting or not marriage or kids is a huge deal will cause problems.
Some of these responses are wild to me. I do understand what you're saying, but it's only being privvy to this info in the first place that makes people insecure. Me and my current partner haven't discussed our past partners at all, except for the contact he has with his ex who's the mother of his child. He hates hearing anything about my past – so I've tried telling him I'm friends with exes. He doesn't want to know. So, one of my best friends is a guy who's dick I sucked before. I have a few friends who's dick I've ridden and we still speak. Completely platonically. And my boyfriend trusts me so doesn't care or want to know about it. If he did know, then I'm sure he'd feel how you describe, but he's old enough and mature enough to realise that those people are my PAST and so completely irrelevant to our story. He's also a strong enough person that if he found out I did cheat or did anything sus, then he'd act on his boundaries and leave.
Your comment is super misogynistic btw.
She also only has one person from the other side of the family that sent a picture of the dress. Information gets garbled, so double checking that the mother is actually wearing white might be a good first step before blowing everything up (which I would be fine with if the mom is actually wearing white)
I do.
She can talk to him first. For weeks. Months. Whatever it takes to find out. End of the day it should her decision as to when. And maybe even attempt a mediator.
But I’m saying court case forst just seems drastic.
Effort shouldn’t mean pay 13000 in court fee’s/lawyer fee’s
That could ruin both of em. Especially if he fights.
But I’ll be damned if you are seriously telling me the ONLY effort should come in the form of paying back child support when she intentionally kept him away(to be fair she was also a child and not only that his reaction was unhealthy as hell… she’s not wrong for blocking him in that time. BUT there were parents involved one could have gotten in touch with the other)
Like we can’t treat this like a case of 2 adults. This was 2 children. Who are now 2 adults. I guarantee you are a completely different person than you at 18 let alone 16.
Effort isn’t exclusively monetary…
if someone told me they had an interest in a certain kink, you don't immediately start doing it to them without their consent.
someone saying they have an interest isnt them asking you to do it.
this was not a mistake. he knew what he was doing and this was his excuse