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Date: October 10, 2022
Agreed.
The problem here isn't your cheating girlfriend. The real problem is that you lack self esteem and self respect. So long as you lack those things, your life will be shit with or without her.
There are already plenty of comments with what I wanted to write.
My only advice is to step back a bit and think and find some self respect man… Seriously , you will only hurt yourself continuing this way.
I think you're wasting your time and feeding your own insecurities by asking if your girlfriend is settling.
What you should instead be focusing on is your overall compatibility and whether you actually feel good being in the relationship, and based on your post and your reiteration here that the relationship is making your self esteem worse, I would guess that's not the case.
You did a terrible job of discussing boundaries. The is a difference between being allowed to have sex with other people and being allowed to date other people. I’m just gonna skip by your whole “wife is only allowed sex with women” thing, google can tell you why that’s problematic in a million ways. Whether this is cheating or not depends entirely on the terms of you two opening your marriage. If you really didn’t discuss the nitty gritty of those boundaries then you two were both being incredibly reckless with the status of your relationship although honestly you more so since you didn’t take your declining interest in your wife as a red flag that things need to slow down and be discussed on couples therapy. Now you have blatantly disregarded your wife by completely forgetting her birthday. Whether what you did was technically cheating or not I can’t say but I can understand how your wife feels that way, because even if you had mutually decided to date other people, I don’t think most polyamorous folks would agree with ignoring your wife and forgetting her birthday. Because of both of your poor communication you have dragged some poor woman into your drama. Get your ass in marriage counseling.
There is a lot of conflicting information here. You “Lost control”, but then you say he “forced himself on you”. Was it consensual or not?
And I agree, the 'community' thing is a cop-out. You are responsible for everything you do.
I honestly don't know what to think. Throughout your post, you talk about the situation as if you were oblivious to it, as if it didn't affect you directly. According to you, Sarah is actively hurting your fiancée, but you don't seem angry with her. It's like you think “my relationship with Sarah has nothing to do with the relationship between Sarah and my fiancée”, “my relationship with Bob has nothing to do with the relationship our partners have”, it's like you've built a wall that will separate you from your fiancée. Bro, you and she are in the same boat, if someone attacks her you have to be there to defend her, that person who attacks her is not your friend, you cannot remain neutral.
Well, aside from all that, it sounds VERY weird to me that the entire group of friends has sided with Sarah. According to what you say, we are not talking about 2 or 4 people, we are talking about a group of more than 10 people and they all took Sarah's side. Either Sarah is a wonderful actress with tremendous manipulative abilities, or your wife really was a shitty friend and that's why everyone took advantage of the confrontation between her and Sarah to cut her out of the group.
Please read the article “She divorced me because I left dishes in the sink”
It’s not about the trolling, it’s about how she feels disrespected and unloved because you continue to do something she asked you not to.
YOu are in over your head, he is having some kind of emotional affair, and frankly because it has been going on so long you have no hope, unless you set boundaries. I would say nc, because he has let this get between him in a marriage. A marriage, so dating, no hope.