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Lovely__Alisa, 24 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
Lovely__Alisa, 24 y.o.
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I don't get it at all. How do you not even consider your partner and just pull out of a dream without even talking to her first. He HAD to know he was feeling iffy about the whole thing way before that day
It's possible he grew up in a household where it was “against the rules” to ask for specific gifts once you were over five or six years old. I was not allowed to make a list. My parents decided what I was getting and I just had to take what I got, whether I liked it or not. To this day I have to make myself answer that question, it's really nude for me.
Mute your Father's number, but don't block him. You might need his messages in the future, for documentation of stalking and abusive behavior with the police. I'm sorry your father is like that.
Thanks for your reply. My dad sure acts like he’s 80 though lol. And luckily my bf is patient. Frustrated, but patient enough to wait 2-3 months for them to find an apartment.
There clearly needs to be schedule planning and couples counseling in the mix, but your comment seems not on the mark here.
“Bitchy” was her mother; MIL didn’t raise him
Wife has 2 adults and a nanny to coordinate with but is still being critical and insulting and feels unable to cope
Wife has a doctor, is taking medication, and also isn’t a dependent. He’s probably not the person who makes her appointment.
I don’t see “no compassion” here. No compassion would be saying “I’m working, figure it out”.
Instead: – two adults online there full time (their role in chores and childcare isn’t fully clear, but they’re there living without rent, including wife’s mother)
while supporting two extra adults as live-ins, he’s paying $7k a month for a nanny for her well-being.
Also, when you have an immediate family member die at age 42, it is appropriate to give up alcohol and treat gym time as essential.
He also encourages her to treat the gym as essential, and it sounds like 3 total household members (4 with the nanny as staff) who have the intention of supporting her in basic self care like showering and going to the gym.
She still feels overwhelmed, and depressed is very hot, but I also have had severe mental illness, have a partner with severe depression, and the truth is, if you can’t find 5-10 minutes to hop through the shower with 2 adults and 1 nanny, and no part-time job among the three of them, the responsibility falls with you at some point.
They should still, as a household, try to organize better and find more structure. Either things aren’t structured well enough and wife isn’t able to engage organizationally in a way that makes these resources helpful, or, it’s possible (likely, even) due to mental health issues and her approach to not even showering, and her criticizing other people (grandmas, husband, everyone but the nanny) for being responsible with their own self-care, she does need more therapy and couples counseling and help with her
But, again, doesn’t mean she isn’t benefiting from help or compassion. If anything, it sounds like she’s getting support and still being mean-to-toxic to people around her and also not caring for herself.
Reddit is weird, idk any friend of mine nor me bein ok with a partner spooning other friends lol