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Date: October 30, 2022
I don't believe you'll be the first priority even after you two get married, otherwise you would already be taken into account. The guy is wired to prioritize his family over anything else, and the marriage reasoning is bogus.
The good news is — this family dynamic is unhealthy, and when married, you would likely have to tolerate the same lack of priority on top of no boundaries with his family. So if this relationship doesn't work out, it might be for the best.
Women get insecure too, sometimes
So I would proceed by focusing on what's in the best interests of the child. And that's:
•A paternity test ASAP. You seem confident this child is yours so this step can be verbal and written (e.g texts) confirmation of when the test will be done – in utero or once the baby is here – whose paying for it, which company you'll use, etc.
•Take dating off the table.
•Put co-parenting on the table. What are both your views on religion? Your views on parental discipline? Gentle parenting? Chores, pocket money, taking parenting classes together, sleepovers, nannies/babysitters, stay at home parents, education, safeguarding, LGBTQIA? Where will this baby live the first year? What does each of your ideal custody agreement look like? Same for child support? Housing? Do you both want to start an ISA/savings for this child to give them on their 18 or 21 birthday? If yes how much do you both want to contribute monthly? College fund if applicable? How are you both going to stay connected during the pregnancy? Is communicating via parenting apps like Talking Parent something you'd both be willing to try? Are you both interested & able to afford using a mediator or therapist to work through some of these conversations? Is both your priorities making sure that no matter what happens between you two, you have the maturity to put your child 1st and be good co-parents for at least the next 18 years?
•Do you have anyone you trust as a person and respect as a parent to their kid that you can talk to about this to get some advice? Are you willing to search online for healthy single Dad forums to ask them what they wish they knew going into parenting?If you're willing to learn from women, TikTok is great resource, so many mothers are on that openly giving new parents advice about things that no one told them that they wish they knew during their first pregnancy and newborn experience. I'd highly recommend watching to give you a realistic idea of the changes to expect in the next year of your life because becoming an involved parent changes everything.
•After you've thoroughly discussed how this is going to work, if you want to give dating a try, I'd recommend nice and slow and before you reunite discussing how you will transition back into purely co-parents if it doesn't work out. No hints an open dialogue. And if you can't have that conversation than you know giving it another shot isn't a good idea. Basically plan for the worst, hope for the best, because if it doesn't work you will need to stay on good terms for the child.
I know both women and men are under immense pressure not to become single Mums & single Dad's. I've watched friends reunite with ex's due to pregnancy after break up and then waste years forcing something they know doesn't work due to the internal and external pressure to give their kid a traditional 'nuclear family'. But at the end of the day, if both your priority is on who each other can/can't date, and what role someone who isn't your gf can/can't have on this babies life before you've felt that baby kick, this is already a toxic environment for that child. You can't change that by yourself. It takes two to tango. What you can do is make sure the only focus you're giving this situation is preparing to be parents & for this child & ignoring or shutting down this petty High School drama energy she's currently bringing. Especially when you both have much more important conversations to have with each other.
And they banged before?
It’s over g Y’all are super young, let it go and move on There’s better out there, and with age comes hope for developed maturity.
Not that it’s always par for the course, but I don’t know any of my friends who are still with the same person that they were with when they were 17-21
You’re obviously thinking about this a lot since you came to Reddit so why delay asking? Are you able to stand the unknown until whenever you see him? Personally, I would just want to know regardless of their distance. Up to you.
Yes u did. People like her confuse the hell out of me. Very disrespectful to you. I’m glad you stood ur grown and did now allow her to over step ur boundaries. Keep doing that, don’t settle for anything less towards anyone or anything.
You literally wanted the bare minimum and she couldn’t respect that. That should be a foreshadow of a long term relationship with her. When she comes back from her trip she prob will want to touch base with you, Zont zo it, it’s a trap. Zont fall for it. Tell her time marches forward and she’s history girl bye
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