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Date: October 15, 2022
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The denial is real girl
You let it go but you watch both of those fuckers like a hawk!
Why does matter in many cases including this one. There are two categories of people when it comes to survivors too. One who when such things happen work on themselves and may sometimes fail but during relapse apologize and work for further solutions and then there are others who use this as an excuse for their bad behavior and refuse to work on it as well as repeat the same pattern as their abuser. When people identify the whys it helps both the parties even if they go separate ways. And once OP leaves this relationship I would also suggest him to take therapy and some time to focus on himself as well. Also, as an survivor I had ex who had completed disregard for my triggers and always brought me to scenarios that put me on high alert and didn’t understand why I would lash at him when I had told him several times and explained in every way how certain things he does is triggering and I will not have control on it especially when I was still healing. He then went around telling people a sob story and cheated on me because I wasn’t “forgetting” things and because “I didn’t listen to him that’s why it happened to me”. So the whys do matter.
You sound exhausting. Let her have this group and quit making everything about you.
We like to say, “she's guano,” in mixed company though.
@OP this pattern of her exaggerated responses indicates she does not have as much control in her life as she thinks she should. This indicates less polarity in your masculine to her feminine.
In my experience (and certainly backed up by one of my favorite books, “The Way of the Superior Man” by David Daeda) you've probably given in to her a few too many times so she expects you to have no boundaries.
Had she communicated this was an emergency and not just a request, might you have responsibilities dedicated differently?
You're not sleeping with her brother. Hopefully she isn't either. Her brother getting to work is HIS OWN responsibility. And you'd be a better 'brother-not-quite-in-law” to mentor him and get him to take responsibility himself. Since it's BOTH of them depending on you, perhaps you're either a pushover or their whole family is a mess.
What do you want in your life? Champions to share your quests with or NPC Followers?
I blocked her in October and told her why (dating someone new). She told me she’s told me to move on and date others since day 1 and asked me not to text her
I think she gave me closure last year
You’re 35 (mid 30s, not early ?), not 92. Stop talking about protectors and character and bUlLiEs every other reply. You defended yourself, your man didn’t feel the need to chime in, all is well. He’s not cowardly bc of some incredibly minor online spat, but your other posts definitely paint that picture.
Because you are consulting them not because you want an unbiased opinion on your problems. You want to hear how good you are and how bad and wrong your husband is. That's why you do it, and your relatives are the most suitable for this purpose.
Yeah no, this shows you don’t trust each other. There was a great episode on Modern Family about this – not wanting someone to go through your phone doesn’t mean you aren’t worthy of that trust. My husband and I were watching the episode and he just handed me his phone, and I said “No thanks.” What’s the point of having a relationship where you’re constantly worried about who the other person is talking to??
My mother emotionally abused my father and as a kid, I thought it was OK to talk about him the way she did. He stayed. She emotionally abused me and he let her. He told me “That's just how she is.” I'm 40. I cut them both off 5 years ago. I'm still working through the trauma. Leaving gives your kids the life they deserve.
Whoa………..if she doesn't work and is unwilling to do her part at home, what the hell does she contribute? Don't do this to yourself. You're in a bad relationship. Cut the dead weight loose.