To me this is basically the ultimate compliment. You are literally a work of are sought after by family…take it to the grave with the satisfaction of knowing that you are indeed a masterpiece.
Then each of your reactions seems understandable. Assume positive intent on his end in the effort, and instead of trying to decide who is right, maybe just talk about why you each felt the way you did and how you can prevent this from happening again together. Doesn’t have to mean foregoing all future V days. Who knows, maybe one day you will laugh about this together and it could become an inside joke years from now! Best of luck!
I'm a bit perplexed. Being a single mom working 12 hours a day is hardly compatible with taking care of a preschool child. Even if she didn't have the child just the 12 hours shifts on a stressful job have a serious potential to have negative repercussions on a serious relationship. Seems to me your gf doesn't have the same goals and wants you have or just doesn't have time to include you into her schedule.
ok..I have had enough..you are trolling or in denial..either way, you refuse to see your part in it at all..trolls do this so they can just keep baiting you..People in denial do it, cuz they literally cant see what they do as wrong, despite some pointing out(in their own words) whats going on…
Yeah but she knew what I was doing I don’t really know how to explain it
because you cant..its a lie..you just keep trying to minimize it. just face it man. lat reply from me. I have said enough and wont take the bait anymore.
Have at it mate!
To me this is basically the ultimate compliment. You are literally a work of are sought after by family…take it to the grave with the satisfaction of knowing that you are indeed a masterpiece.
in contrast to most comments: she dumped you because she is very insecure.
Then each of your reactions seems understandable. Assume positive intent on his end in the effort, and instead of trying to decide who is right, maybe just talk about why you each felt the way you did and how you can prevent this from happening again together. Doesn’t have to mean foregoing all future V days. Who knows, maybe one day you will laugh about this together and it could become an inside joke years from now! Best of luck!
I'm a bit perplexed. Being a single mom working 12 hours a day is hardly compatible with taking care of a preschool child. Even if she didn't have the child just the 12 hours shifts on a stressful job have a serious potential to have negative repercussions on a serious relationship. Seems to me your gf doesn't have the same goals and wants you have or just doesn't have time to include you into her schedule.
Yeah, lowering things to the level of the messier partner only punishes the cleaner one, the messy one doesn't care or even really notice.
ok..I have had enough..you are trolling or in denial..either way, you refuse to see your part in it at all..trolls do this so they can just keep baiting you..People in denial do it, cuz they literally cant see what they do as wrong, despite some pointing out(in their own words) whats going on…
Yeah but she knew what I was doing I don’t really know how to explain it
because you cant..its a lie..you just keep trying to minimize it. just face it man. lat reply from me. I have said enough and wont take the bait anymore.