This issue is so large and complex and we don't get enough of a reading as to who two are as individuals and as a couple. I recommend therapy, both individually and together. Find separate therapists for individual and couple therapy.
I mean you can be engaged for as long as you want tbh. 1 month, 1 year, 6 years, before actually getting married lol. I know a few people who have been engage for about 5 -10 years before they had an actual wedding and got married.
It all boils fown to your expectations. Sounds like your bf just tryna secure you before its 'too late'
we have known each other for over 5 years and have been on and off hooking up since we were 13&14 however started dating at a little over a year ago now.
Me and my partner have a 9 month old and almost 2 year old together as well
So you “started dating” whike having a toddler and being pregnant with the next?
Honestly, this is not how good partnerships are built. If he wasn't your partner when you had a kid and where pregnant with the next, why would he be a partner now.
YTA Make no mistake you aren’t friends anymore if you can’t even say that you’re happy that he’s found love not going to his wedding is the least of your concerns. You say that your religion dictates that you can’t celebrate his ‘sin’ your religion DEMANDS that you do things that you CHOOSE not to do. How do you start to pick and choose which pieces of the Quran that you’re gonna follow?
If you separated, would you move back to the US? (you are a US citizen correct?). You could file for divorce in a US Court?
She could get a work visa in the US? Many companies supply
You say it's draining for you. he probably thinking you're draining. Why don't you just find a different boyfriend?
Sorry to hear that. She will do what she chooses to do, but compliance in her meds,
being abstinent with alcohol and getting guidance from a counselor would
go a long way in making a bumpy journey at least a Little smoother. Just sayin….
This issue is so large and complex and we don't get enough of a reading as to who two are as individuals and as a couple. I recommend therapy, both individually and together. Find separate therapists for individual and couple therapy.
I mean you can be engaged for as long as you want tbh. 1 month, 1 year, 6 years, before actually getting married lol. I know a few people who have been engage for about 5 -10 years before they had an actual wedding and got married.
It all boils fown to your expectations. Sounds like your bf just tryna secure you before its 'too late'
Kink is platonic now?? What isn’t “just a kink” these days? Sheesh.
we have known each other for over 5 years and have been on and off hooking up since we were 13&14 however started dating at a little over a year ago now.
Me and my partner have a 9 month old and almost 2 year old together as well
So you “started dating” whike having a toddler and being pregnant with the next?
Honestly, this is not how good partnerships are built. If he wasn't your partner when you had a kid and where pregnant with the next, why would he be a partner now.
YTA Make no mistake you aren’t friends anymore if you can’t even say that you’re happy that he’s found love not going to his wedding is the least of your concerns. You say that your religion dictates that you can’t celebrate his ‘sin’ your religion DEMANDS that you do things that you CHOOSE not to do. How do you start to pick and choose which pieces of the Quran that you’re gonna follow?