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Your feelings don't invalidate her feelings. It sounds like she's working through a lot. I get tired of people jumping to therapy, but that might be useful here. It will also help her understand your thoughts, and feelings are as important as hers. Hopefully, you two will find a balance where you can listen to each other, not just hear each other.
Marriage is a lot of responsibility. People who don’t want to get married shouldn’t get married and should be upfront with partners about that. People shouldn’t marry because ‘society says you should’. People shouldn’t settle, or marry someone with red flags because they ‘should get married by 30.’ People certainly shouldn’t marry because they want a bangmaid or a sugar daddy.
Pros (in the USA). Tax breaks. Absent other legal paperwork, you become each other’s next of kin. This gives you the right to inherent their estate, make medical decisions, visit them in the hospital, get certain social security or pension benefits.
The legal system essentially sees your marriage as a financial partnership. If you ever divorce, the courts govern over how it is dissolved. If it becomes contentious, the court can step in to protect minor children (custody and child support) and divide assets ‘fairly.’ This is theoretically formulaic, which cuts down on the ‘I hate you now, so I will keep you from your kids or take all our joint money.’
Emotionally it is meaningful for some people and demonstrates a level of commitment. Obviously, it’s not emotional for some people and some people get married with no intention of honoring their vows.
Socially, it can give you a certain social status. This isn’t necessarily fair, but you are asking me about what is, not what I think should be. Marriage can be seen as a success. Married people can be seen as more mature and stable than single people. It can also give the relationship a certain social status that other relationships don’t have. Again, I don’t agree with all this – I know some really immature married people and very committed people who never married.
True , I mean I notice attractive people also but I don’t make it obvious . It’s like if I checked out a guy who looks nothing like my partner and made it obvious I think it might hurt his feelings so I don’t do it . Doesn’t really feel good when I’m def the least attractive girl compared to the women he stares at
This was my thought lmao!! At this point OP may wanna write it down big for him to see
If you stay around and she gets pregnant your situation will be worse.
See a lawyer and figure out what you need to do to get out of your marriage. Tell her you want a divorce and it’s non negotiable. Block her number and have her contact you through your lawyer.
Threatening suicide to get someone to do what you want is incredibly manipulative and abusive. Where she lives after the divorce is a “her” problem
I’ve been in a similar situation before, i was married for 4 years and have a deep desire to follow a spiritual path as well. I think you need to have a talk about creating days for yourself in which you can really focus on yourself. I don’t think the concept of extreme black and whites is a useful concept here ,
I think you can find a middle ground in which your able to follow your spiritual stuff as well. I guess depending on his reaction you’ll know if it’s possible for HIM. I spent nights sleeping in a different room from my spouse during those days personally
No one is asking that
I used to hold cigarettes for a friend anytime I got caught with them. Did you see her give back the phone? Any other proof this is true?
You meet every other week, but have a mortgage together??
You need to find a way to destress then, take a night not to go to the gym and not to facetime him and relax then, again the way i see it is if you only have 2 days together they should be spent together not wanting to lay in bed 2 hours away. Just my opinion but seems to be in the minority.