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Please go to a tv show where they do this “he is not the father” stuff and go for it
OP is not responding to any of the replies here. Basically treating us like a girlfriend or something! 😉
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I can only assume that different departments handle different things. For me it was a pain in the ass because I was reporting an accident that broke my knee lol. I was like REALLY, I have to haul my ass into the station on crutches?
Yeah, this is just your bf sharing TMI and making your parents uncomfortable. I’m straight, and I imagine my parents would respond similarly if I brought home a man who talked about how he likes to just plow the f—k out of me.
Remember that your parents are human, and they’re going to have feelings. They’re entitled to that. Give them time to deal with their feelings, and maybe coach your bf before the next interaction. Maybe his family has different boundaries than yours.
And your last statements DO make you a biggot btw. You're ignorant on what it means to be a furry, and instead of asking and learning about it, you're doubling down on your shitty ignorance and mistreating your friend.
You are entitled to stick to your boundaries. Bluntly, the family and friends saying this are not the ones who would have to navigate the post infidelity relationship. I haven't looked at the subreddit in it but I imagine the recommend steps to earn back trust are time consuming and emotional. And that doesn't always save the relationship either, as another comment pointed out, you have to choose to completely forgive or it nagging at the back of your mind whenever there is an “opportunity” for her to cheat again.
While no one can 100% say what they'd do until they are forced to cross that bridge, I likely would have done the exact same thing you did. My mind would focus on that they betrayed our relationship (as she's not claiming assault and admitted she kissed back) and hid it. Yes only for a few days, but those few days were likely spent contemplating hiding it indefinitely.
I hear things like “a single kiss is nothing”, “it's not like they had sex or even made out”, “you can't throw away 15 years for a few seconds of weakness”
It's unlikely you could ever truly know that's “all” it was because your trust is gone. Even those who are truly remorseful use tickle truthing, telling themselves it's to lessen the blow to the partner. You have no reason to trust the words of any of her coworkers. I'm assuming they knew she was in a long term relationship? No one who saw it reached out to you. The one who kissed her apparently got enough signals (at least through body language) that she wouldn't reject him and I wouldn't exactly trust his morality.
I'm guessing the people pressuring you to reconsider are uncomfortable. Friends who like her or are also friends with her have to come to terms with the new dynamic of you two being separated (which you are still figuring out and coming to terms with yourself) and might have felt pressured to “choose” a side. Some might be wrestling their own “grey area” actions or this might have brought up a tough conversation in their own relationships and it's easier to try to make you change your mind than confront that. Some might just be genuinely concerned about you as it is hot to re-enter the dating scene after such a long term relationship. Dating in your 20's in 2008ish vs in your 40's in 2023 is probably going to be vastly different.
TLDR: they are not the ones living your life. You are the one who would have to do the work to fix the relationship, and no one can or should pressure you to.
Look at your uncertainty.
That is enough to know that this isn't something you're 100% sold on.
If you want to be with someone, make sure its a 100% choice, not someone that you need reddit's consultation to decide if you should settle or let go.
If you cannot dive into a reletionship with him whole heartily, then you need to check out.
Clearly you two cannot operate as friends.
Its obvious he has feelings for you, and you being around to enjoy his company, its a not fair to him (its tearing him up).
So, if you two cared for each-other, sounds like its an all or nothing type of connection. Can't give it your all, then its best you completely check out. Naked for me to see a middle ground here.
Outside of that, he needs to work on this:
In the past it's gone horribly wrong where he becomes really depressed waiting for me to come back, which I repeatedly do. When I don't text enough or be engaged he becomes anxious and emotional. I can't help but feel horrible for it.
He cannot use his misery as a tool to reel you back in. I know you care about him, but you're not his caregiver.
And if you really think about it, if you were to reletionship, you would want a partner who can stand on their own two feet. Someone who isn't dependent on your existence to make them happy. They should be the source of their own happiness and bring that to the table to share with you.
Who knows, the fact that he is miserable without you, might be subconsciously contributing to the reasons why you're not fully attracted to him. It demonstrates a lack of stability on his part, and people need stability.
So you need a new partner.
Sometimes polygamous people can do exclusive relationships