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Date: October 3, 2022
You might want to get back into marriage counseling so you can actually fix the marriage or you end it. The idea of divorce will always get buried so you would have to actually proceed with one without him.
Yeah, I know…
It’s so much. I am so terribly sorry there is no good option. I am glad to see in other responses you are going to get therapy, because this is deeply tragic, and you’ll need support no matter what you do. A therapist will be so helpful on helping you explore and figure out your own limits and needs. And to grieve what you had before her accident. Build your support system, because you’ll need it no matter what you decide.
Well we’ve recently been working on our relationship, and everything has been going great, I just feel inferior compared to other women because of this.
I think this is where people have lost the art of caring for our partners feelings like if my gf asked me something like this my answer is always her
Chores should be equitably (note, not necessarily 'equally') distributed, but that absolutely does not preclude any conversation about the intrinsic value, monetary or otherwise, of chores generally. She thinks her cleaning plus groceries and internet is easily worth the extra money he pays in rent and utilities, possibly even more–but that's making a huge assumption he actually agrees with that statement, let alone realizes or cares about the extra cleaning. There's a good chance he disagrees.
Maybe this means they're incompatible. But they won't figure any of this if they don't sit down and have an actual conversation. It is extremely likely that they have different standards of what needs to be done around the house–an incredibly common situation that almost any person living with a roommate, partner or not, has gone through. It's possible that he's both completely disgusting and complains when the place isn't in perfect order, but probably not the most likely. What's more likely is he is messy but she is tidy, so he cleans the bare minimum (to his standards) and she does the rest (the majority) to get things up to her standards.
Sure, she can up and run and change her priorities so that she ends up with someone that's even cleaner than her, but then what happens when her new boyfriend gets upset that he's not doing “her fair share” of the cleaning? Who's right then?
My girlfriend is messier than I am, and it does bother me at times. But she genuinely wouldn't notice if I didn't tell her. If I were to follow your advice here, I'd lose the love of my life over some trivial, childish bullshit.
There are always different bars for these things and the only way to get around them is to communicate. It's the only possible way she'll ever feel heard. The only possible way he'll ever have the chance to grow. The only possible way any relationship has any chance at anything.
It's just bizarre to me to hear an argument about “most men not doing enough emotional labor” in the same breath as an argument about why a woman shouldn't have to communicate her feelings about why she thinks her relationship is unfair. It is very typical reddit to automatically scream for a divorce/breakup at the first sign of anything negative, but the very real, undeniable fact is that neither of the people in this relationship are properly communicating. You are cutting her a ton of slack, jumping to big conclusions about how the boyfriend is a useless asshole, while it is completely self evident she's also avoiding a real conversation. Even by her own admission, she only “made a comment” on his “joke”. That's not a conversation. That's not proper communication.
Sure, it's easy to tell people you don't know to run anytime something bad happens. But jesus christ, they're in their early/mid 20s. Cut them some slack and try and give actual advice.
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I'd break up. that sounds dumb as fuck.
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