Yeah… and the gym too tbh. I’m big into fitness and working out and all the gyms here are a bit odd. They’re either so busy there’s no point going or they’re quiet but there’s a reason they’re quiet. Just got nowhere to train and my last 10 years of effort are literally falling off me. It’s hot to watch sometimes.
I’m trying my best to make the day to day more enjoyable. I’ve gone home for now. But it’s making me question if I’ll be happy anywhere. I have no idea where else I’d live!
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You need to make sure it is your child first of all. You can get paternity tested whilst pregnant, so maybe think about asking her to do that. Kind of sounds like she’s tried to trap you to be honest, so absolutely get paternity checked first.
Very true. I just have been having my trust broken time and again by family. I feel like the only one I can talk to that I know will never blab to anyone is my husband. Thank you for the advice and I definitely will be cordial! I am just saddened that I can't say anything to anyone without it getting spilled to others.
Your name suits. I’m not excusing what she did- but if he doesn’t tell her what she did wrong, she might do this to other people. The apology is for the transphobic and derogatory remarks, and explaining why he reacted the way he did. The reaction was not to a trans person, but to what she did to him. Calling her transphobic names and calling her a man implicates that he is repulsed by her transexuality, which may be the case – but she shouldn’t go around thinking being trans is the problem. It’s making other people touch your genitals without their consent that he was disgusted by.
Yikes…. Run for the hills!
Yeah… and the gym too tbh. I’m big into fitness and working out and all the gyms here are a bit odd. They’re either so busy there’s no point going or they’re quiet but there’s a reason they’re quiet. Just got nowhere to train and my last 10 years of effort are literally falling off me. It’s hot to watch sometimes.
I’m trying my best to make the day to day more enjoyable. I’ve gone home for now. But it’s making me question if I’ll be happy anywhere. I have no idea where else I’d live!
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You need to make sure it is your child first of all. You can get paternity tested whilst pregnant, so maybe think about asking her to do that. Kind of sounds like she’s tried to trap you to be honest, so absolutely get paternity checked first.
Very true. I just have been having my trust broken time and again by family. I feel like the only one I can talk to that I know will never blab to anyone is my husband. Thank you for the advice and I definitely will be cordial! I am just saddened that I can't say anything to anyone without it getting spilled to others.
Then there goes your answer. He's not trying to deal with the same thing all over again.
Just tell her, how is this not the only reasonable Thing to fo for a friend?
I’d be throwing you back if I was her. You should end it if you truly love her. We all know you will do it again with another dude.
Your name suits. I’m not excusing what she did- but if he doesn’t tell her what she did wrong, she might do this to other people. The apology is for the transphobic and derogatory remarks, and explaining why he reacted the way he did. The reaction was not to a trans person, but to what she did to him. Calling her transphobic names and calling her a man implicates that he is repulsed by her transexuality, which may be the case – but she shouldn’t go around thinking being trans is the problem. It’s making other people touch your genitals without their consent that he was disgusted by.
Don't settle. Find someone who is available.
How are we both aholes…?