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This is terrible advice. She has communicated very clearly that she doesn’t feel comfortable with her partner watching porn, I imagine it would be extremely uncomfortable for her to literally witness her partner watching porn.
The solution here is for OP and his girlfriend to break up because they clearly have different boundaries in their relationship and OP is not willing to honour hers.
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UPDATE: First of all, thank you all for your replies, I'm sure you can all understand that I am in love with this woman and I have been since we were children. For me, it isn't as simple as some comments have said about just throwing her away. If I am to break up with her I really need to think this through for a while and determine if what she did is a true reflection of who she is today, however, I absolutely appreciate each individual comment, and all of your different takes have been and will continue to be absolutely essential to helping me figure out my own thought process.
After further discussion with my girlfriend, she has said the reason she has would not do this with me is because she cared how I viewed her body and was very nervous about me seeing it because I'm the love of her life and she was terrified I'd find her ugly. She said this whole thing with her friend had been predeceasing our relationship and essentially had been helping her get through lockdown but that they did it once more after we got together but remained on the stance that that was the last contact they had. I verified that this was the final contact they had by checking chat log receipts and speaking to him personally. He verified with screenshots of dates that this was in fact the last contact they had.
Some further context on my partner, I understand all of your points about her keeping these videos however I think it is important for you all to understand something about my partner. She has OCD. In fact she has 200k photos on her phone starting with the first photo she ever took and she physically can't bring herself to delete any of them. She has a draw full of bus tickets from getting the bus to school that she physically can't get rid of and If I try she cries and begs me not to. I personally do not believe she was looking at these videos, I believe she physically can't bring herself to delete anything. This may sound like I'm making excuses for her but I know her and know she has essentially got a record of her life on her phone that she can't get rid of. Obviously, I still have a horrible feeling she's kept it and viewed it but If I listen to my head instead of my heart on this one it tells me that it's her OCD.
You don't sound mature enough to get married.
Life isn't a pinterest board of perfection. It's about human connection. You have someone who loves you and obviously put care and effort into a special proposal – its not like he just handed you a ring and made no effort. I think you are being very dramatic, and you would hurt his feelings with your criticisms of what was a lovely gesture.
I'd honestly just tell them that it's your body and you get to decide what goes on it. If they don't have something nice to say, you'd rather they not say anything.
If they can't do that, you leave.
Don’t doubt your feelings for a second. This was violative of implicit and obvious boundaries/social norms, shared by the vast majority of people who take measures to keep their hot bodies private (e.g., wearing clothes). She almost certainly wouldn’t be okay with you showing other people her nudes (even if she’s aware of the hypocrisy and now says she wouldn’t care).
Part of the problem here is her shitty friend group, who seem to encourage this behavior. I’d be wary of partnering with someone who would even attend an event like this, much less up the ante.
There are a couple lessons to learn, here, though. First, she is correct, in a way, about her ability to do with these photos as she pleases. Legality aside (highly variable, anyway), there is nothing stopping her from distributing these materials. Even if it is illegal, or there’s law where you are that provides a cause of action for civil damages, those things happen after the damage is already done. There is always a risk associated with sharing stuff like this, and you assume that risk when you share, or allow your photo or video to be taken.
The second follows from the first—you really need to know the person you trust with intimate information. There are layers to that. You want to know you can trust this person to be respectful of your boundaries and expectations even if they’re angry with you, even if you break up, or even if they are just drunk and hanging out with friends. But before that, you need to communicate those expectations. This shouldn’t be the first time you’ve discussed how your nudes are to be handled.
If I were you, I wouldn’t tolerate this.
Oh sorry, I misunderstood. TBH, unless she actually neglects or abuses the child, then there's nothing you can do to have it foistered from her care. I know she's done you a lot of wrongs, but try not to burn all your bridges because if she is the mother of your child, then you're going to need to have some degree of workable relationship together to mediate matters relating to the kid.
Yours is a typical case and why porn sites are filled with amateurs video of couples (former) having sex. With high likelihood, your video n nudes will be leaked out to internet permanently especially if after a nasty breakup. If you are okay with that, then its okay. If you arent ok with that, you are in serious trouble with this dude. You have been warned.
Update: I told her, she said it was cute and she did it too so she took it as a compliment. Thanks for the advice everyone
Your wife is cheating on you. The end. What you decide to do with that info is up to you, but she’s cheating and lying about it.