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Date: October 16, 2022
Or she gets validation over guys fighting over her. Hence she only hangs out with guys. This girl loves the attention probably sees other women as competition.
I used to be in a relationship with someone who was fairly severely disabled, let's call her Debbie, and it took a long time for her to trust that I really found her attractive and wanted to be with her (even though im also disabled). For me, it was always about Debbie as a person and about wanting to build a life with her, whatever that looked like. The fact Debbie was a wheelchair user or that I helped with her care was just a neutral fact, like her having red hair to going to wheelchair football on Wednesdays. It took time to build that trust, and I can imagine how deeply it would have hurt her to find out that impaired mobility or reliance on others for care was something I actively sought out. If my not disabled husband found my hearing impairment or bowel condition or losing my balance sexy I would actually feel sick.
There's a word for people who fetishise disability, and there's a reason most of us avoid them. Being disabled is bloody hard. It's not fun, it's not quirky, it's difficult and prevents you from living as freely as other people. I have a great life, but this view of disability, enjoying other people in pain, indicates a deep seated lack of empathy for the reality of how OP actually experiences the world.
I'm so sorry OP. Whether it's a deal breaker only you can decide, but the people trying to persuade you to be flattered are just plain wrong.
Gunna just thoughts dump bc i have a lot of feelings about these things and idk what will help most:
Do not stop your meds cold turkey. Ever. If you want to stop them, please talk to your doctor. Don't stop them if they're helping you. You can lose the weight if you want, but stopping a medication that is helping you enjoy life is worse than a lil bit of body fat.
Ten lbs might feel like a lot at your weight, but the recommended weight for 5'4″ is about 125-130 so (according to my doctors bc I'm the same height) you're at a healthier weight for your height now than you were before… As long as your diet is healthy, the weight gain isn't bad.
Idk how your boyfriend said this to you. You need to take time to calm down and decide for yourself whether he said it in a way that was genuinely concerned or if he was being a manipulative ass. If he was being an ass, get rid of him. We don't body put up with body shaming anymore. Either way, tell him to keep it to himself in the future. If he wants to worry about your health he can cook for you or ask you to the gym with him.
If you want to turn it into muscle ? or lose the fat in a healthy way, look at your diet (maybe with a nutritionist) or consider looking into a gym routine.
Weight =/= a health metric. We often associate weight with fat, but I have less fat on my body now at 160lbs than I did two years ago at 150lbs (just as an example). Weight is at best a loose assessment of fat, and it's a terrible judge of that. If you look in the mirror and like how you look, all the numbers in the world can fuck off.
Love your body, it's just trying to take care of you.
Thank you. He wants to entirely cancel the photographer which I’m really struggling with. I looked forward to having those photos but I also want to be respectful/understanding of how heartbroken he is right now.
Get the fuck away from that guy.
I had made a joke about some celebrity (a guy) and he got angry and this was two days ago. I had apologized and we were getting better but yesterday I tried communicating with him about us fighting and wanting to be better and learning how to communicate better but he thought I was just trying to argue with him, so that turned into a fight. Then we went out later that night and fought too, and that’s when it got really bad and he was also yelling at me saying” I don’t love you blah blah blah, I’m done im done, we’ve been fighting this past week and I’m not happy” but we’ve fought before and always got through it. He knows not all relationships are perfect.
Those poor kids. Having a child is about the child.
Someone even thinking it's appropriate to mention statistics like that does it not because they misunderstand how to interpret statistics (which they do misunderstand), but because they're racist enough to think your boyfriend being Asian means they can violate the social contract that says it's inappropriate to talk about genitals to strangers. They think your boyfriend (and you, for dating an Asian man) is not worthy of respect. Now, for the statistics: the way statistics work is by population level, not individual level. Sickle cell anemia is a lot more common between Black people than other populations. Doesn't mean that every Black person has it. If the statistics were true (I don't care to go check), it would only mean that being small was more common in Asian people. It wouldn't mean anything about any individual Asian person, who could very well be the largest person in the world. Whoever did the math to calculate the average didn't check every single person. But that doesn't mean anything, because, again, they're not going around to everybody they meet discussing populational dick sizes. They're targeting you to practice this kind of sexual harassment because you're dating an Asian man. Because they're racist.
I hear you- I think the gifting culture has become so tacky. I would find a better way to word what you want to write. A lot of people write please no gifts but if I read that I don’t take it seriously so I see why you added that at the end. Maybe say “we seriously don’t want presents, only your presence, please please please” make it a little more dramatic than the usual no gifts sentiment that’s flimsy and not taken seriously.