I would have told him to leave as soon as he arrive at my parents and to not contact me unless it’s through my divorce lawyer.
Punishing you and putting the blame on you for something out of both of your controls is cruel and after all that was said, personally I wouldn’t want to work on anything. Find someone that cares for you and truly loves you and drop the one that used a opportunity to cut you down in every way.
Yeah I guess there are just people out there, like my parents, who are going to talk to each other about anything and everything, and no contract is going to stop them.
I agree that this idea of a relationship is semi antiquated, but they’re soul mates. They’ve been married for 60 years. They talk about everything and there is no fear of that information leaving their circle.
Some people approach marriage that way, others constantly think about what could be used against them if they were to get a divorce. It’s two different ways to go through life.
Thank you for your respons. When just the two of us are together and i am trying to have a normal conversation, he is most of the time distracted. When i ask him what i just said, he can answer the question. Often he is not completely ignoring me, but just giving very short answers. I talked to him about this, but i just can't get anything out of him. It seems like he doesn't know what to do. The conversations are just ending very fast because of me getting no answer, a short answer or him being distracted and talking about something he is seeing/hearing/smelling at the moment.
You just wanted to fuck someone on your trip and didn't. You're fuckin gross. OPs comments are all you need to read. He wanted to be open to other experiences or some shit. Fuck out of here.
Well in general she (to the best of my knowledge) is very loyal to me. Phone has no password, she wouldn’t break a sweat if I picked it up and went through it (although I never do) just if mine died or something and needed to borrow it. I trust her, but just can’t get over what she did in the beginning.
u/socku14 Thanks for your honest opinion, I will definitely work on this, I should also mention that I have spoken to my mom strongly about the boundaries and its much better at this point. Thank you again.
The fact the first thing he asked was for a make out sess defo shows all he wants is laid if all your after as casual its upto you just be carefull
i don't rate anyone like that IRL i just thought it was an easy way to explain point i was trying to make
I would have told him to leave as soon as he arrive at my parents and to not contact me unless it’s through my divorce lawyer.
Punishing you and putting the blame on you for something out of both of your controls is cruel and after all that was said, personally I wouldn’t want to work on anything. Find someone that cares for you and truly loves you and drop the one that used a opportunity to cut you down in every way.
You put into words my exact thoughts on this. It’s crazy seeing people justify this because she “lied” and isn’t an angel
Well you already lied and Christians do that all the time. So it’s sounds to me like you have this “acting Christian” thing down pat.
Yeah I guess there are just people out there, like my parents, who are going to talk to each other about anything and everything, and no contract is going to stop them.
I agree that this idea of a relationship is semi antiquated, but they’re soul mates. They’ve been married for 60 years. They talk about everything and there is no fear of that information leaving their circle.
Some people approach marriage that way, others constantly think about what could be used against them if they were to get a divorce. It’s two different ways to go through life.
Thank you for your respons. When just the two of us are together and i am trying to have a normal conversation, he is most of the time distracted. When i ask him what i just said, he can answer the question. Often he is not completely ignoring me, but just giving very short answers. I talked to him about this, but i just can't get anything out of him. It seems like he doesn't know what to do. The conversations are just ending very fast because of me getting no answer, a short answer or him being distracted and talking about something he is seeing/hearing/smelling at the moment.
You just wanted to fuck someone on your trip and didn't. You're fuckin gross. OPs comments are all you need to read. He wanted to be open to other experiences or some shit. Fuck out of here.
Well in general she (to the best of my knowledge) is very loyal to me. Phone has no password, she wouldn’t break a sweat if I picked it up and went through it (although I never do) just if mine died or something and needed to borrow it. I trust her, but just can’t get over what she did in the beginning.
u/socku14 Thanks for your honest opinion, I will definitely work on this, I should also mention that I have spoken to my mom strongly about the boundaries and its much better at this point. Thank you again.