My sister was with her black BF for years. My mom reacted the same way. It took a decade, but mom finally came around and now accepts him as her son in law and part of the family. When I became serious with my SO, she was the same way, because he didn’t have a higher education. Sometimes they come around. Sometimes they don’t, and you have to make a choice.
Are his parents aware of his behavior? If you think it will help, consider talking to his parents/your stepparent. Don't phrase it like you're “tattling” on him. Calming describe what you've observed and say that you're worried about his behavior.
He's an adult, so he can choose whether or not to listen, but it's likely to work better coming from his parent than his little sister.
The other thing you can do is befriend his gf and be a supportive, non-judgemental presence in her life.
NO. As always, breakups do not have to be a mutual decision. It doesn't matter if you want to reconcile because he does not. You do not get to force someone to be in a relationship with you.
Leave him alone instead of constantly texting him. You are being incredibly disrespectful to him, and despite saying “this is not a silly teenage relationship” you are obviously a silly teenager.
I’m sorry you’re having a very hot time. That period of time between getting on meds and feeling better can be really difficult. So many feelings and changes.
Try to cut yourself a little slack. Tell your gf how she can best support you.
When people say they had a strong connection with someone but the other person has gone ghost, it was only half strong – your side- which means it wasn’t strong at all, because the expression “a chain is only as strong as it’s weakest link” also applies here. If one person is into it and the other isn’t? Why you wasting your time on someone who isn’t into you with their whole self and heart?
I’m confused. It’s a UTI. Bacteria got into your bladder. It’s common. It’s normal. It needs some antibiotics and he needs to wash his penis better.
You aren’t oozing puss from a necrotic cyst or something.
He’s tired of of YOU always feeling bad?!! Gosh. Poor baby.
He sounds really ignorant and immature. You aren’t wrong to feel the way you do- I would as well if that helps.
You’re sick. Really you deserve compassion, kindness and someone who will hold you and treat you extra nice until you get better. Someone who understands that UTI’s aren’t gross and bodies just do things sometimes.
Men can also get UTI’s by the way. It’s less common but it happens.
I’m confused. It’s a UTI. Bacteria got into your bladder. It’s common. It’s normal. It needs some antibiotics and he needs to wash his penis better.
You aren’t oozing puss from a necrotic cyst or something.
He’s tired of of YOU always feeling bad?!! Gosh. Poor baby.
He sounds really ignorant and immature. You aren’t wrong to feel the way you do- I would as well if that helps.
You’re sick. Really you deserve compassion, kindness and someone who will hold you and treat you extra nice until you get better. Someone who understands that UTI’s aren’t gross and bodies just do things sometimes.
Men can also get UTI’s by the way. It’s less common but it happens.
This early in the relationship? Take a pass, move on to the next. When people show you who they are, believe them
Projection at its finest, good luck with your addiction!
My sister was with her black BF for years. My mom reacted the same way. It took a decade, but mom finally came around and now accepts him as her son in law and part of the family. When I became serious with my SO, she was the same way, because he didn’t have a higher education. Sometimes they come around. Sometimes they don’t, and you have to make a choice.
What fucking 20 year old doesn’t know about discharge lmao. Leave him sis wtf
Are his parents aware of his behavior? If you think it will help, consider talking to his parents/your stepparent. Don't phrase it like you're “tattling” on him. Calming describe what you've observed and say that you're worried about his behavior.
He's an adult, so he can choose whether or not to listen, but it's likely to work better coming from his parent than his little sister.
The other thing you can do is befriend his gf and be a supportive, non-judgemental presence in her life.
Honestly I don’t know why I done this to myself really. I’m done forgiving him I am going to leave. I need to heal and move on. Your right!
NO. As always, breakups do not have to be a mutual decision. It doesn't matter if you want to reconcile because he does not. You do not get to force someone to be in a relationship with you.
Leave him alone instead of constantly texting him. You are being incredibly disrespectful to him, and despite saying “this is not a silly teenage relationship” you are obviously a silly teenager.
I’m sorry you’re having a very hot time. That period of time between getting on meds and feeling better can be really difficult. So many feelings and changes.
Try to cut yourself a little slack. Tell your gf how she can best support you.
Aw boo hoo
When people say they had a strong connection with someone but the other person has gone ghost, it was only half strong – your side- which means it wasn’t strong at all, because the expression “a chain is only as strong as it’s weakest link” also applies here. If one person is into it and the other isn’t? Why you wasting your time on someone who isn’t into you with their whole self and heart?
I’m confused. It’s a UTI. Bacteria got into your bladder. It’s common. It’s normal. It needs some antibiotics and he needs to wash his penis better.
You aren’t oozing puss from a necrotic cyst or something.
He’s tired of of YOU always feeling bad?!! Gosh. Poor baby.
He sounds really ignorant and immature. You aren’t wrong to feel the way you do- I would as well if that helps.
You’re sick. Really you deserve compassion, kindness and someone who will hold you and treat you extra nice until you get better. Someone who understands that UTI’s aren’t gross and bodies just do things sometimes.
Men can also get UTI’s by the way. It’s less common but it happens.
I’m confused. It’s a UTI. Bacteria got into your bladder. It’s common. It’s normal. It needs some antibiotics and he needs to wash his penis better.
You aren’t oozing puss from a necrotic cyst or something.
He’s tired of of YOU always feeling bad?!! Gosh. Poor baby.
He sounds really ignorant and immature. You aren’t wrong to feel the way you do- I would as well if that helps.
You’re sick. Really you deserve compassion, kindness and someone who will hold you and treat you extra nice until you get better. Someone who understands that UTI’s aren’t gross and bodies just do things sometimes.
Men can also get UTI’s by the way. It’s less common but it happens.