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Birth Date: 2002-07-21
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Date: October 17, 2022
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If it honest to god looked like a hair and someone said lamppost, that would be odd. So I get that part. The part I don’t get is how long you been talking? A month, two? With out knowing if you ARE exclusive (what does some level of exclusive even mean?) and how long you’ve been talking, you bringing up a hair in a picture is the crazy part to me. You even say it could be family or a friend. So why even go there?
So I've read this post twice now, since you reposted, and you seem like you want some whirlwind movie scenario to happen,
and it's not gonna happen. No one is going to encourage you to leave your partner and try to “win back” someone who has been over you for years. I can tell that's what you're grasping at, and again, it's not gonna happen.
You think the grass is greener because you're seeing things through rose colored memories. You're not together, you're over. You're engaged, she's engaged.
The only difference is you don't sound mature enough to be, and my God your poor fiancé. Let her find someone who doesn't see an ex and immediately want what they can't have. You sound delusional and inside your own head far too much to be a decent parter to either of these women.
Grow up.
If your partner doesn't want to anything the only thing you can achieve is humiliating yourself. Either accept your partner is ok with her work friend getting touchy and flirty or leave her. Since she is fine with, how things are right now.
You said you didn’t know anything about pregnancy because you were never around pregnant women. You should have learned. You should have prepared yourself. Instead, you had no idea about what your wife was going through. Your mother demeaned and traumatized her. You did not step in and check your mom. She experienced medical discrimination in childbirth. This happened to Serena Williams (one of the most famous black women in the world) and many black female doctors in the US, too.
Because of your negligence, in addition to the very real trauma she has been through, your wife is not interested in more children anymore. You need to understand that.
To ensure you don’t lose your wife, first, research Serena Williams’ case. Then look up the black maternal mortality rates in the US. Take notes and see what you learn. Then, you need to apologize to your wife. You need to show her you understand what you did and how little you supported her was wrong. You need to especially apologize for just putting your mother with her – (why didn’t you send for her mother? Why didn’t you tell your mom to stop belittling her experience? Why didn’t you make a change when it wasn’t working?), and not stepping in more to help.
You need to ask her how scary it was – and just listen. Because you were not there to do this the first time.
And please release yourself from the prison of the idea that she will have more children.
Exactly right. Bodies change hot from 20-25–they mature. My husband was a skinny kid at 21, and by 24, BOOOM! Chest and shoulders! Women also mature out of teenagerdom during these years.
I find it curious he makes no mention of how much weight. Hmmmmm. Had a guy on here one time shrieking about ten pounds.
If you’re not in an official relationship, what is the distinction for you between talking stage and dating?
Use of the terms vary across cultures and from person to person. Some would say dating means in a relationship.
Oh yeah, 100%. They've got a lawyer and all that jazz.
You just say that you feel that she is taking out her past trauma with men on you and you don’t deserve that. Simple as that.
Is this the only thing that concerns you? Your wife was tired?
If there’s literally nothing else in your relationship that worries you, then it is insane to leap to “cheating” as the explanation. More than that, it guarantees that you’ll implode your relationship.
First, work through the checklist:
Is your wife sick? Don’t just say ‘no’, ask her.
Is your wife under stress or dealing with anything? Ask her.
Could your wife have been drugged? That’s statistically the best explanation for why she’d be so exhausted after a party.
she is not in a relationship with him, she went on a date with him
You’re absolutely right .
Why would you want to stay? Apart from the deceit he is very controlling. No wonder you cry every day. You’re entitled to leave the house and have your own life.
Let him keep the escorts. Find someone capable of loving you.