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Yeah I agree with this. I told him he has a lot of making up to me to do. That right now all I need from him for the time being is reassurance. We talked, I went thru his phone, I believe what he says when he says he doesn’t like her as anything more than a friend and a friend he doesn’t care to hangout with outside of with her boyfriend who he’s closer to. All I can do is take his words at face value and hope action follows. If not I can address it from there
I understand how embarrassing and horrible this is for you and I truly do feel for you.
However, I'm a little confused at you describing yourself as 'hurt'? Adrien is hurt. Even if you have been in a long relationship, there is still real pressure to impress your partner's family and be liked and accepted by everyone. It must have been awful for him and I think you need to reflect on that a bit more as your whole message seems to concentrate on how you are feeling about the situation. He will be more likely to accept your apology if it is genuine, heartfelt and not self-pitying.
Something I wanted to ask as well was why you immediately thought Adrien was trying to assault you? Isn't this someone you know very well (considering they are engaged) and have been around a lot? Has he ever given you any reason to mistrust him before?
Try to see this from his perspective (and your sister who must have been horribly embarrassed). When you have truly put yourself in their shoes, only then apologise. Do not say anything that you have said here about 'being sad at how your dad worded things' or that you were sad your sister didn't check up on you. This apology needs to be about them. Your sister was correct to trust him and obviously knows him well.
Now I might get hate for this, but I think the damage to her sister shouldn’t be the main mention a lot of people are making (I understand that not what you’re saying) it seems like a lot of people in here are in some mindset of “yeah it sucks to be Adrien but like his fiancé is also affected so we should focus on how this damaged her” it’s really disgusting to see especially as someone who was wrongly accused of some messed up shit (I was nowhere near the person, they made claims, people believed them, two years later they said it was because no one was making a big deal/giving them attention for moving) anyways I get you’re not making this claim but I think people should really only be focusing solely on adrien and adding the effect it could have on her sister as like a “also XYZ”.
Anyways sorry for the tangent I have like ADHD??
Per this point… don’t get pregnant by him, he won’t support you or have empathy for you during your pregnancy/birth.
Take this warning to heart.
I read that thread too. The whole thing was disgusting and then on top of it he kept saying they “passed away” when they were MURDERED.
Also sorry OP that this happened to you. I think you should keep (or start) therapy and you’re probably not going to end up with her and I’m sure that’s devastating but she’s not a good human and you should let her go.
Well, Thanks for your concern but can you please keep your strident opinions to yourself.
What’s talking nicely and giving direction?
Clear assertive instructions of what you want if not followed is a him problem, if the instructions aren’t clear it’s a you issue, on the communication side anyway.
Dude clearly way too nervous so if you continue you are going to have to take the lead, make sure you are done first before he is, rinse and repeat he should be trained soon enough.
Or just end it and move on, up to you and what you want to do.
Just confront him and be direct, but just remember he might outright reject you.
“Hey fuckface (or whatever you call him) what is going on with our dates, I am not interested in being flaked 3 times the next date is (time,place & activity) either come or move along”
Until one of you is able to move to the general area of where the other lives you'll never know if this relationship would last IRL. Trying to move in together if you've never even lived in the same city would be insanity of course, because you have to date in person for a while to even know if you're really compatible. So for better or worse renting is probably the only rational way to get into the same city so you can have a normal courtship. Then if in a year or so things are going well that might be the time to consider moving in together. Buying real estate with a non marital partner is always insanely risky. So if you do make it to the point where you want to buy something together make sure you use a lawyer to outline specifically what happens to the property if you break up. Good luck
Sounds like you two don’t have room for a relationship if you both don’t have room on your plates.
Just toss up to wrong timing for you two and that it was inevitable not going to pan out long term.
It happens, sometimes people have to make a judgement call and how he handled it was a bit immature granted, but I think he’s aware you two don’t have time for a relationship & not just with each other, but in general… or at least I hope he’s aware.
Cause the outside looking in, I can clearly see this if you are both extremely busy.
Take this as a learning lesson for now, which is normal in your 20’s to figure out to properly have a balance for yourself & a relationship.
By your 30’s you eventually figure this out and those that don’t will always be scratching their heads why they can’t maje a relationship work when they have zero time to make really room for one.
why is it off-putting?
Dave Ramsey ?
yeah no girl, you're gonna need to stand your ground on this if you don't want that bf of yours to get all financial control so you get no say and you get ABSOLUTELY NO WAY OUT of the relationship.
Record it, show it to her and then dump your girlfriend anyway. It’s shit she doesn’t believe you, she’s basically saying you’re lying to her face.