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But she didn’t say that he would, she said the tone has been set because OP and kid’s mom isn’t doing anything about it. She mentioned what could happen if the behavior isn’t corrected and rectified. She’s absolutely right, that could happen and she literally gave him a solution but OP doesn’t want to take accountability. Hence him saying “It’s not her place…” a few comments up, when he’s the one who specifically asked her for support and guidance. You can’t ask for support and guidance then be pissed off at how you receive said support and guidance.
He needs to start more gentle and work his way up to the big toys. If he can't see this and can't understand this then let him leave and be with someone who respects you and your body.
Him huffing because you can't do what he wants when he wants and because you're in pain, well, that's just childish and selfish. Especially as his decision is just, fine I'm leaving and not we will work on making it comfortable for you and keep it at a level you're comfortable with.
Better off without him given his current mindset on the issue.
To be fair, I'm keeping the 2 jobs – trying to save up and still am taking care of my father. Hahah.
It's definitely a one sided relationship, and everything else you've said is basically on point. On the boundaries side of things I think there's definitely a way where I'm far too stern with her, or my delivery on what I'm looking for is too intimidating. Someone early said I shouldn't be worried about controlling her emotions. That's fair, but I still think the course of action is to just be myself and talk to her normally. Set these boundaries and expectations, and see what she can do. If she doesn't take to any of this then it can be over.
Thank you for this, a lot of good stuff I can think on.
This isn't “the curtains should be brown”, “NO! It's pastel or nothing!”.
This is a man wanting to control your every interaction with anyone you might even think of interacting with… and that's unhealthy for you.
In the first one (the curtains), there can be compromises made. In the second one (the interactions) there is no compromise. There is either capitulation or there isn't. If that means a breakup to save yourself… you have to come first in that case.
I know I am gonna get downvoted for this, and I in no way condone a lie. AT ALL.
But you seemed to have made a bed here. This could go 2 ways, he could be angry at you for a few days, realise that his dream of buying you a home and having kids is within easier reach and that this was a good thing, or he could be so angry it would set him back and lose his new found focus and drive to provide
Maybe tell him slowly. You are still working but only on a consultancy basis if they need your input and they pay you for those hours, which is why you have not yet received your paperwork. And next month tell him they have asked you to stay, and you have chosen to remain in order to assist him with getting the finances together for the house and you will re-look at being a SAHM when you start baby planning, etc.
But she didn’t say that he would, she said the tone has been set because OP and kid’s mom isn’t doing anything about it. She mentioned what could happen if the behavior isn’t corrected and rectified. She’s absolutely right, that could happen and she literally gave him a solution but OP doesn’t want to take accountability. Hence him saying “It’s not her place…” a few comments up, when he’s the one who specifically asked her for support and guidance. You can’t ask for support and guidance then be pissed off at how you receive said support and guidance.
I'm not a doctor but it sounds like he might have low testosterone. He needs to go see his primary care doctor and ask them about it.
Is he on any other meds? Does he drink often? Does he do cocaine or any other drugs? Is he depressed?
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Accused you? Aren't you allowed to do that?
He needs to start more gentle and work his way up to the big toys. If he can't see this and can't understand this then let him leave and be with someone who respects you and your body.
Him huffing because you can't do what he wants when he wants and because you're in pain, well, that's just childish and selfish. Especially as his decision is just, fine I'm leaving and not we will work on making it comfortable for you and keep it at a level you're comfortable with.
Better off without him given his current mindset on the issue.
To be fair, I'm keeping the 2 jobs – trying to save up and still am taking care of my father. Hahah.
It's definitely a one sided relationship, and everything else you've said is basically on point. On the boundaries side of things I think there's definitely a way where I'm far too stern with her, or my delivery on what I'm looking for is too intimidating. Someone early said I shouldn't be worried about controlling her emotions. That's fair, but I still think the course of action is to just be myself and talk to her normally. Set these boundaries and expectations, and see what she can do. If she doesn't take to any of this then it can be over.
Thank you for this, a lot of good stuff I can think on.
This isn't “the curtains should be brown”, “NO! It's pastel or nothing!”.
This is a man wanting to control your every interaction with anyone you might even think of interacting with… and that's unhealthy for you.
In the first one (the curtains), there can be compromises made. In the second one (the interactions) there is no compromise. There is either capitulation or there isn't. If that means a breakup to save yourself… you have to come first in that case.
If she blacked out, remembers nothing but woke up with a sore vagina and no underwear then that is non consensual sexual activity aka rape.
I know I am gonna get downvoted for this, and I in no way condone a lie. AT ALL.
But you seemed to have made a bed here. This could go 2 ways, he could be angry at you for a few days, realise that his dream of buying you a home and having kids is within easier reach and that this was a good thing, or he could be so angry it would set him back and lose his new found focus and drive to provide
Maybe tell him slowly. You are still working but only on a consultancy basis if they need your input and they pay you for those hours, which is why you have not yet received your paperwork. And next month tell him they have asked you to stay, and you have chosen to remain in order to assist him with getting the finances together for the house and you will re-look at being a SAHM when you start baby planning, etc.
I don't know. Just a thought. Good luck.
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