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Hell, even if OP eventually does decide she wants kids someday she'd be crazy to have them with this guy. She's effectively already parenting him. He doesn't clean up after himself, can't cook and won't learn, and is apparently incapable of keeping a calendar or planning in advance. It'd be worse than being a single mother.
That’s so true, I mean the way she was speaking to me was really cringe. She hates me right now and this is the first time in 5yrs I’m sleeping in a different room….I know there isn’t going to be a magic gift or something I can say, but I need to fix this and win her back….I feel so dumb rn
I suggest, quite often, that there is an obvious escalation ladder of sorts in a relationship where both want to introduce sex (or hints of it) in a relationship. It's one of those things where you gradually dip you're toes in the water a bit to get a feel for the temperature, and get used to the situation before introducing something that “moves towards the goal”.
If you don't mind that I'm a bit blunt, it is quite a leap forward to be hard and have sex with someone, if you are not even close to being comfortable letting him see your belly while you are working out.
And therein, you find most of the point I'm trying to make.
If it's a huge leap into the unknown, maybe you need to divide it into smaller steps?
I don't know ANYTHING about where you are today, physically speaking, in your relationship. So I'm going to keep this quite generally phrased, so that you can spot the idea rather than think of the ramblings of a random dude from the internet as a road map you need to follow. (also, I base this quite a lot on how at least a handful of my own relationships have worked, so maybe there even is some kind of half truth in this idea?)
Anyway.
I like to think that one of the first physical things that happens in a relationship is to deliberately hold hands while being out walking. Hugging as a way to say both hello and goodbye.
An obvious step forward from that is to deliberately put yourself in a situation where the physical closeness is the purpose. Like cuddling or even sitting very close on a sofa.
Cuddling has an obvious step forward too, and that is to cuddle and kiss. And caress.
Which, I guess, easily escalates to cuddling, kissing and caressing with clothes in some sort of disarray.
And that would, at least in my mind, escalate into kissing, cuddling and caressing with clothes a bit more deliberately tossed around the room.
Which, I guess, could turn into kissing and cuddling and caressing with a deliberate few pieces of underwear left on.
And from there, it often escalates into curious exploration of certain fascinating body parts THROUGH fabric.
And … UNDERNEATH fabric.
And, eventually, without actually having underwear on either.
If you think about it, a lot in this is DEFINITELY leaning in a sexual direction. There could very well be orgasms involved. Or at least desire to have them. But it's still not what most people define as having sex. Because I deliberately left that part out.
It's just a hint at that it could be on the table later. Something to hope for. Something to long for. Steps along the way that you can cherish and truly enjoy. Steps you can stop a bit at, if your anxiety smacks you in the face and asks what you are doing and tells you to slow down a bit.
Some people kind of check off all those steps in an afternoon. For others, some steps takes a day and others take weeks. Which means that TIME is really not important here. What is important is that you get accustomed to each and every step (and, you know, infuse another step into it, if you feel that I'm missing something) so that you are COMFORTABLE EVERY STEP ON THE WAY.
Ask yourself what kind of physical touch and closeness you already have in your relationship. And try to figure out what the next logical step is.
Talking about it is something you are going to have to do, and that's for sure. But at this point, you can probably just gently nudge things in an escalating direction and see what it takes for you to be comfortable with that, you know?
Ask him. Point blank. Ask if your exclusive. Ask if your his girl. If he says no, then you can't exactly be jealous since he never made you official. But if he says yes, then explain to him why this behavior makes you uncomfortable.
Just remember, if his answer is no, then let him know you want exclusivity. If he can't give that then move on
Hell, even if OP eventually does decide she wants kids someday she'd be crazy to have them with this guy. She's effectively already parenting him. He doesn't clean up after himself, can't cook and won't learn, and is apparently incapable of keeping a calendar or planning in advance. It'd be worse than being a single mother.
That’s so true, I mean the way she was speaking to me was really cringe. She hates me right now and this is the first time in 5yrs I’m sleeping in a different room….I know there isn’t going to be a magic gift or something I can say, but I need to fix this and win her back….I feel so dumb rn
I suggest, quite often, that there is an obvious escalation ladder of sorts in a relationship where both want to introduce sex (or hints of it) in a relationship. It's one of those things where you gradually dip you're toes in the water a bit to get a feel for the temperature, and get used to the situation before introducing something that “moves towards the goal”.
If you don't mind that I'm a bit blunt, it is quite a leap forward to be hard and have sex with someone, if you are not even close to being comfortable letting him see your belly while you are working out.
And therein, you find most of the point I'm trying to make.
If it's a huge leap into the unknown, maybe you need to divide it into smaller steps?
I don't know ANYTHING about where you are today, physically speaking, in your relationship. So I'm going to keep this quite generally phrased, so that you can spot the idea rather than think of the ramblings of a random dude from the internet as a road map you need to follow. (also, I base this quite a lot on how at least a handful of my own relationships have worked, so maybe there even is some kind of half truth in this idea?)
Anyway.
I like to think that one of the first physical things that happens in a relationship is to deliberately hold hands while being out walking. Hugging as a way to say both hello and goodbye.
An obvious step forward from that is to deliberately put yourself in a situation where the physical closeness is the purpose. Like cuddling or even sitting very close on a sofa.
Cuddling has an obvious step forward too, and that is to cuddle and kiss. And caress.
Which, I guess, easily escalates to cuddling, kissing and caressing with clothes in some sort of disarray.
And that would, at least in my mind, escalate into kissing, cuddling and caressing with clothes a bit more deliberately tossed around the room.
Which, I guess, could turn into kissing and cuddling and caressing with a deliberate few pieces of underwear left on.
And from there, it often escalates into curious exploration of certain fascinating body parts THROUGH fabric.
And … UNDERNEATH fabric.
And, eventually, without actually having underwear on either.
If you think about it, a lot in this is DEFINITELY leaning in a sexual direction. There could very well be orgasms involved. Or at least desire to have them. But it's still not what most people define as having sex. Because I deliberately left that part out.
It's just a hint at that it could be on the table later. Something to hope for. Something to long for. Steps along the way that you can cherish and truly enjoy. Steps you can stop a bit at, if your anxiety smacks you in the face and asks what you are doing and tells you to slow down a bit.
Some people kind of check off all those steps in an afternoon. For others, some steps takes a day and others take weeks. Which means that TIME is really not important here. What is important is that you get accustomed to each and every step (and, you know, infuse another step into it, if you feel that I'm missing something) so that you are COMFORTABLE EVERY STEP ON THE WAY.
Ask yourself what kind of physical touch and closeness you already have in your relationship. And try to figure out what the next logical step is.
Talking about it is something you are going to have to do, and that's for sure. But at this point, you can probably just gently nudge things in an escalating direction and see what it takes for you to be comfortable with that, you know?
Ask him. Point blank. Ask if your exclusive. Ask if your his girl. If he says no, then you can't exactly be jealous since he never made you official. But if he says yes, then explain to him why this behavior makes you uncomfortable.
Just remember, if his answer is no, then let him know you want exclusivity. If he can't give that then move on