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Date: October 20, 2022
After my ex left me and married another man I realize that our relationship was a toxic one. That was the third man she cheated on me with and of course I would get upset and yell. After an intense amount of therapy without her, just therapy by myself I have realized the wrong way that I would get into arguments with my ex. If you listen to the way you argue, how most people argue, you always lead in with you, you, you, you. Example, you didn't pay the bill, you didn't do stuff right, you made me mad. Instead of using the word you, in an argument, which is viewed as an attack. Calmly if he will, calmly talk to him and have him use, I feel. Use sentences like, I feel you aren't listening to me. I feel scared when you yell at me. I feel I let you down by not paying the electric bill. You take the attack away from the argument. It can only work if you both use this method. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope that if he is not cheating, that you guys can get back to a meaningful relationship. If not, I'm sorry that it's dissolved. Good luck.
Hello. I received this news earlier today as soon as I picked her up for that evening date.
Dude we been together for 4 years and I only cheated twice. Stop pretending I’m some serial cheater
I mean, she hasn't been really to straightforward with you- saying she isn't “sure”, etc etc then deliberately getting an 8 year IUD at the age of 35 is a pretty “darn sure” move really. Her actions aren't aligning with her words which I think is what is upsetting you, it sounds to me like she's trying to “run out time, then oops its too late now, give up your dreams because I got what I want” sort of situation. And I think you're subconsciously aware of this and that is why your reaction way so strong. But how on earth you didn't reach a definitive answer to the “do we want kods or not” situation is bafelling to me because there is NO compromise when it come to having kids, you are both within your right to want or not want kids- but it may just be a fundamental incompatibility issues that cannot be compromised in with out one party having serious regrets and resentment. Frankly you need to ask her outright and get a concrete answer from her- at her age it sounds like she definitely doesn't want kids- all her actions speak to that. So essentially you two are incompatible.
You’re on your own here. You are choosing to continue a relationship with him when he openly TELLS you he doesn’t want what you want. Prepare yourself for the self-loathing you will wallow in everyday for allowing yourself to be devalued.